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Originally Posted by SaintessHeart

And no, don't talk about sex.

Exactly...


Understand what you are saying. Its just the way you are saying it. No matter how you arrange it. It sounds as if you are saying you " You will never BE IN LOVE with her, until you hit that for awhile"--hate to be crude, but that is how she hears it.

Instead of worrying about all that. Just go for yours. Even if you are trying to ease her fears. The fact that you haven't made it first base and you are already thinking about these things. Will scare the living shit out of her. She will think you are clingy. (or a dog, or a pig, or possessive or all of them)

Women think about things like that. Guys just date--unless he's the type that gets strung on every girl he goes out with.


Just ask her out. She says no...ask another chick. Its also in your game... (How you go about it). Sometimes you can literally talk a girl into it. Just know when to draw the line. Persistence is one thing, stalking is another. Learn to know the difference.

Don't use those stupid lines. Honesty works best--however omission isn't really lying.

...What? It isn't...


Don't get too personal on the first date. Do not tell her your whole life story....

Don't listen to other guys. Guys lie on their [insert the word you know I used] all the time. What works for them might not work for you.

Confidence is everything...

(Also don't give unsolicited advice on her hair or insult her with your "true thoughts" --unless you want to call it an early night)

Don't be a sucker either. Don't let her just "herb" you. :stare: Don't ask her to go half either, chivalry does go a long way.

Do that and even if you are shot down a few times. You will still get at least one or two. (Those other byatches will wish they had you then)

Edit: You also have to be careful. The thing about girls is we know if we will never get with a guy. Then there are guys that we are not attracted to at first, but then he grows on you.

Don't, burp, fart, scratch you neither-regions, or do anything disgusting before you are married. That image will remain etched in her memory---and you will be "done-off " You do that, and you won't even make the friend zone.