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Old 2006-04-05, 00:10   Link #44
Avijja
Sultan of Spin
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Left Coast, Soviet Federated Socialist Republic of America
Age: 48
@Vexx, Akuma-sama, Catgirls: Many thanks, glad you liked the post. I've avoided anime forums for a long time because I couldn't handle seeing "omg i liek narutoo 2" . This is a really good community you have here, glad I found it. PS: You might also get a laugh out of this deeply-buried post on dubbing.

@DaFool: You have my sympathies, that sounds like a frustrating situation. However, I admire your honesty and ability to admit something so personal.

For what little it's worth, many women don't like manly-men. They're frightened by the aggressiveness, insensitivity, narrow-mindedness and afraid this man will run off after another filly. Therefore you have an advantage and opportunity, even if you can't change your body.

I've heard people cite many different reasons for their choices, e.g. "I love women", "I hate men", "I hate my parents and want to get back at them by telling them I'm gay", "I hate something about myself", "I love exploring sensuality", "I hate rules and get a thrill from breaking them", "I enjoy being what I am", etc. Note how a person might only agree with some of these statements but not others? I try to be understanding, but I can't help feeling sad when the reason cited includes words like "hate", "reject", and "despise". I hope you find a way to either accept yourself or resolve your frustration and find what you're looking for.

I'm curious, how do you feel about Tomari?
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