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Originally Posted by darthfanta
I strongly suggest that Godou give up doing everything in the name of normality. He's a hypocrite and he is only normal if he wanted to be. He already knows that the girls love him--it isn't about whether he is or isn't sharp on romance.As I have said, rejecting or accepting a relationship is the rudiments of social norms.The girls are helping him because they loved him, not because they are friends. If he doesn't(which I doubt) love the girls, just tell them so, and reject their assistance. If he does love them, even if he's just attracted to them, he should go on and tell them that. He's being selfish by not trying to decide whether he loves them or not. If he doesn't love them(which I doubt) and yet delays to give a definitive response, he's just wasting the girls' time and their youth.As for my example of sixth graders dating one another, I am just trying to point out that they already have some sense of romance. There's definitely a reason why it is legal for sixteen year olds to get married under the consent of their guardians. A number of people I know has already lost their virginity before the age of sixteen(Australian law dictates that it is legal for minors over the age of twelve to have sex with those who are within two year older or younger than them).Even if you feel that you are too young to have sex, that does not mean that you are too young to love another.
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If Godou could actaully get away with a simple I love you might have a point however you have to be either crazy or stupid to think Godou could actaully tell them that without stepping into a minefield. Let's face it these girls have already been talking about marriage, having childern, having mistresses and where they rank in romantic pecking order so there are going to be some follow up questions. It's no wonder the guy is a little spooked and let's face it his girls do have a temper. Plus since he is looking at a life long commitment it's no wonder he taking a little time.