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Originally Posted by GuidoHunter_Toki
Well different situations call for different sets of actions. Not all bullies are going to be put at bay by physical force and many times consulting an adult does work. I believe the most effective tactics when dealing with a bully are...
~ Keeping in mind that your sense of self-worth is of importance. When you have to walk away, use assertive language, defuse the bully with humor or employ any other tactic as a means of defense. You're taking back what the bully wants to destroy, your self-confidence.
~ Building friendships with others that share your interest. The buddy system is one of the best ways you to protect yourself from bullies because they typically have an aversion to groups.
~ Stopping the problem by working together with other people to find a way to resolve the issue. There is strength in numbers and you can beat the feeling that you're alone against bullies by sharing your hardships with others.
~ Seeking out the assistance of an adult. The actions of an adult working on your behalf may help stop bullies in their tracks.
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that never works, what you are suggesting will only make the victim a bigger target fro bullies. Speaking from personal experience here.
if you are being bully, DON"T EVER back down. that will only make things worst.
Teachers are absolutely useless in these situations.