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Originally Posted by MUAHAHAHAHAHA
Well, to be sure, it's an easy way out and you don't have to spend hours comforting the person when he/she comes to you seeking opinion on their feelings or action...
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Yes it is. I usually give up and not comfort at all.
I'm one of those really nit picky people that consider that lying and do not differentiate 'white lies'. And I don't like to lie. I'm not a good friend when it comes to seeking comfort. I'm more of a practical friend who either has a solution or doesn't.
My mother comforts me by laughing at me. She doesn't say this but the general tone is like "PFFFT what the hell is that, grow some balls" like when I had a $3000 debt from a tuition payment error and got put on hold and had the collections agency after me. Because i grew up with that kind of advice, it really comforts me because she makes things seem like not a big deal.