In my book nice guys don't finish last. That is if they practice genuine kindness. I find that a lot of the guys who claim to be "Nice guys" tend to be very self-centered. They always complain about what is effecting them, whilst not even paying attention to other people. That or they are so self-entitled I can't be bothered to be around them. I've had so called nice guys turn into some of the worst abusers ever. Then after beating me, and dump me. They turn around and say "Why can't I find the right woman. I am a nice guy." As for true nice guys, I've never met one. Though I if I did, and he didn't look down on me and accepted me for everything that I was. I would be intensily loyal to them.
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