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Originally Posted by viperdk1
I don't understand. Maybe I never will.
I've always tried to do things the 'decent' way when I've become interested in a woman, being decent and respectful, yet every single time I've been told that they don't see me in that light and I'm just "a friend". I don't understand what I'm doing wrong or what is wrong with me that leads to this permanent friendzoning (10 years and counting if I recall correctly...might be slightly exaggerated, I dunno) but I just...need help.
What do I have to do to get a woman interested in me?
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OK. Number 1 DON'T stop being respectful in as far as just resorting to skeevy pub girl hunter with all sketchy actions and dialogue that that implies.
I know your pain bro, I am in the same boat but have been getting better. I managed to attract a few girls but we were in different places in our lives so it didn't peter out.
But here's the thing, if I had to distill advice down to one bullet point, Don't worry so much about "being nice" and more about being YOU and more importantly A
HAPPY FUN AND CONFIDENT YOU.
There's more to it, but you have to get out of a "OH I HAVE TO DO THIS RIGHT OR I'LL NEVER ATTRACT THIS CHICK" mindset, trust me, it blew me some GREAT chances. And chicks can smell it a mile away.
Here's a GREAT site with free tips and insights.
http://www.nicknotas.com/dating-101
and especially read this blog post.
http://www.nicknotas.com/blog/are-yo...st-a-nice-guy/