Eh, I get that Tomoya just went through as much of he did and it was enough of a challenge to open up and change himself before...
But I've just been around death too much, personal and not, to just be unable to sympathize as much. I'm not saying his behavior is inexcusable, I'm just saying that my feelings, and purely my own, are what's making me so hateful towards him.
I've threatened my significant other though, if they were to behave like Tomoya and become all distant towards our child were anything to ever happen to me, I'd make sure they'd regret it.
Be it... I haunt them or something. XD