@Abashi: Women are women regardless of where they are. Some of us are "hard" as you say--you would very likely describe me as "hard," because I'm aggressive, ambitious, confrontational, don't take shit from anyone, don't mince words and am brutally honest.
But that doesn't have anything to do with how I dress, the makeup I wear, and how many pairs of shoes I have. I get really tired of people equating feminine fashion sense with the behavior of a vapid bit of useless fluff. I am not a decorative object, and I do not think I should have to dress like a dyke just to prove that I'm not.
I like wearing short skirts, thigh-high stockings, heels, and all that girly shit. That doesn't mean I'm "soft" or weak. And just because I'm an aggressive person does not mean that I'm a cold-hearted bitch, either.
You really make a lot of assumptions here. It sounds to me like you've been treated harshly by women in the past, because you sure seem to dislike them.
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