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Originally Posted by Xellos-_^
that never works, what you are suggesting will only make the victim a bigger target fro bullies. Speaking from personal experience here.
if you are being bully, DON"T EVER back down. that will only make things worst.
Teachers are absolutely useless in these situations.
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Really I get that those seem ineffective for the majority. I'm just speaking from my own personal expirences which seems to differ greatly from the good number of people responding to my post. Let me say again though that I'm not saying those tactics are going to work, more that they are alternatives to physical altercation that I've seen work. Looking back I kind of worded my point of that post poorly.
Anyways I just think fighting a bully, while being most likely the quickest solution comes with, at times, the cost of the bullied getting punnished for fighting back (at least from my personal expirences), which is why I think its important to try other tactics first before resorting to the tactic of violence.