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![]() As for the other one she's mad about it, but i don't get it ![]() ![]() ![]() Not to mention if you have to fight for someone's affection, you will always be fighting that battle as there is always someone better than you.
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
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Unusual incident today. I'm on the bus on my way to see my girlfriend so we can turn in the lease papers for our new place. So I'm just drawing...drawing...drawing on my little sketch pad. This gorgeous, just goddess of a girl (Asian girl...international student I think) gets on the bus and happens to sit next to me. After taking a quick glance I just keep on drawing. Out of my peripheral vision I noticed she was watching me sketch a bit, which added a tiny bit of pressure to make sure my skills were up to par. After a while she comments that she really likes my pictures. I rebuttal by being quite modest, but thanking her for her encouraging comment.
Suddenly the bus gets really crowded (like a slave ship). I'm practically at my stop. There is an elderly man standing up in front of me, and I offer him my seat since I'm about to get off. Before he can reply this drunk ass homeless man adjacently standing groans that he wants to sit down because he is handicapped and entitled to a seat. I simply reply "Uhh...okay proceed..." I stand up to let him sit. As he tries to squeeze his way through the crowd, he gets to my seat, and just rudely sits down and starts jabbering to the girl about her not giving him enough space or some BS like that...(you could just tell he was a homeless crazy asshole) and also threatening her. I immediately start yelling at him to leave her alone. The entire bus goes silent. There had to have been 70 packed people on that thing. He stops for a second, but then starts again and I do the same thing (honestly I felt like some enraged parent). He stops and doesn't speak to her anymore. I get off the bus at my stop and so does he coincidentally. Before I get off I tell the girl to have a good day. And she gives me this dreamy look with a smile and basically says thank you in a shy manner. I tip down my aviator shades and go about my business. Probably the best icebreaker I've ever had...actually her inquiring about my drawing was good enough, but that entire episode made it hot and spicy. If I was single that would have been the jackpot of all opportunities.
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Wish i could top that story, but i can't.
Anyhow, I saw my couger today, and she came up behind me and pinched my waist. Of course i nearly pee'd my pants because she startled me. Today i was wearing my tongue ring, and she just seemed so suprised by it. She giggled like a little school girl, and her face went red. I don't know what impression i gave her, but everytime i saw her afterwards, she just started blushing an giggling. On these encouters i never said a word merely giving a smile. I hadn't even made any real advances and i get this sort of reaction.
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
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- I was drawing on the bus and an attractive girl happened to get on. - She sits next to me. I keep drawing. - After a few minutes she makes a comment to me that my drawings are very nice. I tell her that I'm not at the level where I want to be yet, but thanks for the encouraging comment. In a very modest manner. - The bus gets crowded pretty much right after. I pack my things because my stop is close by. - The altercation happens. - My stop comes up right after the altercation and I say a quick goodbye and head to my girlfriends place. There was practically no time within any of that bus ride to exchange names and or numbers. And there was no reason to in my case as I'm not single. The end. Honestly I can't believe I had to dumb this down this much for you to comprehend. Everyone else clearly understood...and didn't bitch about it not being in the right thread or whatever. The entire point of the story was about how good of an icebreaker this would have been if I was single in the first place. I probably would have continued to converse with her after she talked to me instead of just continuing drawing...if I was single. It's not even the fact that you didn't like my story, could care less about that...it's just the fact that you clearly came across as a douchebag trying to start something for no reason...and you did a terrible job even at that.
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Hello all, I come again seeking advice. Same guy as before.
Okay, so... I'll admit, I kind of chickened out on talking to him and have more or less avoided him ever since the year ended and I started college, which wasn't so hard since he chose to stay home. The last few days however I've been home for Thanksgiving break and won't be back at school until Monday. Today he called me to wish me a Happy Thanksgiving. I sent him a text message reply (too cold?) and turned off my phone after that, so I don't know if he responded. He seems to have stopped bugging my family about the whole incident, but I get the feeling he's still looking for me. Now, here's my problem: one of my friends from high school wants to hang out, which isn't so bad, except he's a mutual friend of me and my former love interest. My biggest fear is that I'll pull up at his house and Marco (the guy I loved and gave up on) will be there, forcing a confrontation. So what am I supposed to do? I know sooner or later I have to honestly talk to him and let him know the door is closed; we'll never have a relationship, not after what happened between us. But at the same time, I'm scared and want to hope it'll just die off on its own.
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I've a bad feeling about this.
As he is a mutual friend of his, he will find out. And I don't think he will take it kindly. I think you do have to have that talk with him to remind him the door is closed...or perhaps just hope he can find out on his own and resign to that fact.
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Saw him today in the food store while I was shopping with my mother, but he was so busy chatting with one of his friends that he didn't even notice I was there. I probably should have said something to him then, but I didn't want to call attention to myself unless he noticed me on his own.
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Location: Monterrey, México
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Hi! RadiantBeam
I think in the near future you'll have more of these casual encounters that are perfect to do a move in the love's chess. It's ok you prefer he notices you on his owm, but sometimes you have to go around near him with an attitude like he isn't there. And It dosen't matters he's shy or not I'm sure if You give him a lolita's-little sexy-one side- but discrete SMILE you'll take his mind and he'll start thinking what's up, this type of smile is a powerful weapon from yours... girls and us men fall with this hahaha!. ![]() ![]() Good Luck! |
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He's not someone I want to date.
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