Dating

[Otaku Emperor]

Originally Posted by mikita

Yeah, take some time to find out more about yourself and really get to know what you want not what you think you want. I mean you can trust us, we're older than you ♥

:3 You got a point there

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

:3 You got a point there

Plus, you still need time to recover from the break-up. Jumping right from the end of one relationship into the start of another isn't a good strategy.

[Habhome]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

Heyyyy, I wouldn't dump the girl of anything like dat.

:3 I'm not like dat.

Perhaps. And just a tip, you'll be less suspected of something like that if you act a bit more mature. At least get rid of that slang of yours, it's hard to take you seriously when you sound like a 5-year old.

[Otaku Emperor]

Originally Posted by Habhome

Perhaps. And just a tip, you'll be less suspected of something like that if you act a bit more mature. At least get rid of that slang of yours, it's hard to take you seriously when you sound like a 5-year old.

Hahahha, sorry.

:3 I tend to do that cause it looks cute :3

[cheyannew]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

Hahahha, sorry.

:3 I tend to do that cause it looks cute :3

TBH, it doesn't look cute; it actually looks silly coming from a near-adult. That's something I'd expect a 7 or 8 yr old to do, not 14.

Not to be cruel, but honesty sometimes is...

[Seitsuki]

Ah cmon, spare the guy. 14 is still kinda the transition period. At least its not "omg lol ima b kewtzorz!!1" or some /b/ tard crap like that.

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

Hahahha, sorry.

:3 I tend to do that cause it looks cute :3

I'm going to be honest, for someone your age, it isn't cute. It isn't cute at all. In fact, at times, it's downright irritating and incredibly hard to take what you post seriously with that kind of attitude.

[cheyannew]

Originally Posted by mikita

Ah cmon, spare the guy. 14 is still kinda the transition period. At least its not "omg lol ima b kewtzorz!!1" or some /b/ tard crap like that.

o.O My 9 & 12 year olds would never type like that.. In fact, it drives my son (12) batty when he sees leet speak and whatnot, his reaction is "Why can't they just spell right?"

[Otaku Emperor]

Okey, now I think we are getting a bit off topic nya.

So, what's relationships like in collage?

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

Okey, now I think we are getting a bit off topic nya.

So, what's relationships like in collage?

*resists the urge to correct the post*

I don't see why you ask. College relationships are really no different from any other relationship. You have class, you might have work, and through that you find some private time to spend with your significant other. Or if your significant other lives further away, you find some private time to call them or chat with them on AIM.

[Seitsuki]

yeah, I'm also pretty sure he meant colleg-- *no! don't spoil it!*
the main difference is that when you're at college you aren't 14. big difference already. you'll be older and (maybe) wiser, and therefore know better what you want out of a relationship opposed to "want a cute girl like in the animes"

[Otaku Emperor]

Originally Posted by mikita

yeah, I'm also pretty sure he meant colleg-- *no! don't spoil it!*
the main difference is that when you're at college you aren't 14. big difference already. you'll be older and (maybe) wiser, and therefore know better what you want out of a relationship opposed to "want a cute girl like in the animes"

I don't go by looks silly.

I want the relationship to be a cutesy one though :3

[cheyannew]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

I don't go by looks silly.

I want the relationship to be a cutesy one though :3

o.O WTF is a "Cutesy" relationship?

As opposed to a healthy/stable one, or what?

I daresay as you grow up, your definition of what you want in a relationship will change...

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

I don't go by looks silly.

I want the relationship to be a cutesy one though :3

Honey, I hate to disappoint you, but a relationship is never "cutesy". It's a lot of work and sometimes just as much pain as it is a joy, but when it's done right, there's no better feeling in the world. It requires work, patience, and an understanding of your partner and what you want.

You have an odd definition of relationships. And I say that kindly.

[hinakatbklyn]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

I want the relationship to be a cutesy one though :3

Never heard of a cutesy relationship. But at your age it's better than being serious. Unfortunately there are some cases where kids even younger are having serious relationships (mostly bad).

If both sides are willing to go along with a "cute" relationship, I say have fun now while there's still time. I've witnessed first hand (from a safe distance) that relationships are all serious business. Save that relationship stuff for later when you're ready to be serious.

[Aimingan12]

Originally Posted by Otaku Emperor

I don't go by looks silly.

I want the relationship to be a cutesy one though :3

Cutesy?! Since when have relationships ever been like that?
I agree with RB on this.

[synaesthetic]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

Honey, I hate to disappoint you, but a relationship is never "cutesy". It's a lot of work and sometimes just as much pain as it is a joy, but when it's done right, there's no better feeling in the world. It requires work, patience, and an understanding of your partner and what you want.

You have an odd definition of relationships. And I say that kindly.

I'm going to take a shot in the not-so-dark and say that most folks who have never had any sort of experience with a real relationship will have odd views of them. I remember my view of relationships when I was a teenager. It was hopelessly idealistic and romantic and it dominated my every thought.

Otaku Emperor, those feelings are hormonal. These powerful chemicals tend to ramp up during the adolescent and teen years, causing your brain to cease functioning rationally.

Eventually they'll fade, and your brain will return from its current atrophied state.

[Dilla]

I have a question for you ladies(and guys if this applies).

I was hanging out minding my own business in my dorm lobby when overhead two female fellow student talking. One of them commented that she recently broke up with a guy because he was too nice. Not in a clingy way, but him holding and opening doors and doing other chivalrous stuff for her just made her uncomfortable. Naturally, her girlfriend(and me from the corner of my eye, I'm not usually this nosey) gave her the 'WTF' look. So, is there a such thing as being too nice to your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? If so, what's your definition of being too nice? Is being too nice a one-way ticket into the strictly 'Friend Zone'?

Is this guy too nice?

Part I: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U93BB...layer_embedded
Part II: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MONNc...eature=related

[Miyuki-ism]

One girl told me I was too nice last year. And I hardly even did anything. Ridiculous.

[Otaku Emperor]

Originally Posted by Miyuki-ism

One girl told me I was too nice last year. And I hardly even did anything. Ridiculous.

:3 Too nice is good.

I get told that all the time ^ _ ^