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Well, if gender is supposed to be subjective, then I'll concede the point.
I still don't think that just watching other women can give one an idea of what being a woman is about. Quote:
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2009-08-30, 12:07 | Link #22 | |
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I simply think it's because most people don't have a good grasp of the difference in meaning between the terms "sex" and "gender" though, it's that simple. And really, when sex IS gender for the majority of people, one can hardly blame them for confusing the two most of the time. |
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2009-08-30, 12:11 | Link #23 |
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The difference between sex and gender has been around, at least I know my teacher differentiates them with her gender study knowledge.
And, there's a reason I separate both terms in 'Ignore gender and kick sexuality to the curb!'
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2009-08-30, 12:12 | Link #25 | |
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2009-08-30, 12:16 | Link #26 | |
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2009-08-30, 12:20 | Link #28 | |
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Again, two different things, except different this time. I was talking about gender identity, but what you had been talking about all this time is the concept of gender norms. The difference here is that I'm talking about individual self-identification, but taking this example you brought up here....using your example, the gender norm in your culture is supposed to be submissive, while the gender norm in my culture is supposed to be aggressive. So, if we are both submissive people, it's the people in your society who regards you as masculine according to the gender norms of your society, while it's the people in my society who regards me as feminine according to the gender norms of my society. What we have here are two related, but rather different concepts. |
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2009-08-30, 12:23 | Link #30 | |
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....I should go on another tirade about the difference in meanings in the terms "sex" and "gender", but you probably didn't mean it, so I'll let this slide. -_- |
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2009-08-30, 12:24 | Link #31 | |
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2009-08-30, 12:26 | Link #32 | |
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Damn, I wanted to combine these two posts, sorry |
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2009-08-30, 12:27 | Link #33 | |
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2009-08-30, 12:36 | Link #34 | |
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2009-08-30, 12:49 | Link #36 |
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....I already fuckin' laid out the difference between "sex" and "gender" just now. You may actually want to pick up the skill of reading in favour of your usual tactic of spouting out your usual "genius" one-liners.
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2009-08-30, 12:54 | Link #37 | |
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You're young, and your sexual feelings may still be forming. Don't worry too much if you're unsure of what your orientation is. Keep an open mind and pay attention to your thoughts and feelings. As for synaesthetic, I hope things turn around for you soon. I will remark that your gender identity issue is a rather interesting one, as your sexual orientation matches your biological makeup. It sounds like you were put through trauma and abuse, probably all throughout your childhood. Do you think that you're rejecting your physical masculinity as a result of some past trauma? Do you have resentment against males in general? (You don't have to answer if it's too personal. I'm not trying to play psychologist here, I'm just curious.)
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2009-08-30, 12:58 | Link #38 |
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Gender Identity only depends on Individual Perception. But Individual Perception can and will be influenced by society's perception. that is...Gender Identity can depend on Society but not necessarily---depending on the individual. Gender Identity are not based on Gender Norms but are based on Gender Perception which are not entirely based on Gender norms.
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As I grew older and understood more of my own situation, expressing it outwardly, the abuse began in response, as a sort of punishment against a male who would dare give up masculinity in favor of the "inferior" femininity. (This is pretty much exactly how my family viewed it, too). I don't resent all men. I actually have a number of male friends whom I am very happy knowing and being a part of their lives. But, honestly... I'm more than a little afraid of men I don't know well. My life experiences with transphobic individuals, largely men, in the South hasn't exactly helped with this irrational fear. Not to mention almost getting killed while staying in a Salvation Army-run homeless shelter (which forcibly placed me in the male segregated section). Quote:
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2009-08-30, 13:03 | Link #40 | |
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Whatever. Time to sleep. |
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