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2010-03-23, 14:27 | Link #3942 | |
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This happens primarily with people who dump you because they found someone "better" and thus still have some feelings for you, and perhaps might use you as a backup if the new relationship doesn't work. Even "good" people can feel something like this, but with some thought, they can realize *why* they are feeling this way and deal with it. It's up to you to decide how you feel, but my suggestion now is to put her out of your mind for now, and continue with life. If you find someone else, go for it, and don't concern yourself with her at all; She made her choice. |
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2010-03-23, 15:24 | Link #3943 | ||
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IMO the girl is in no way worth your trouble if she goes out with someone else so quickly just because you haven't decided. Then again, I'm as "mono" as it gets and would never consider fishing with several hooks on the line. So yeah, I'm with Animelover#1 on this. |
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2010-03-23, 15:55 | Link #3944 | |
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Generally if someone's interested it takes a lot longer than a week to decide to date someone else....
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2010-03-23, 17:00 | Link #3946 |
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As mentioned earlier, more than likely Haru wasn't her first choice; or if he was, she had some back-up boys if he took too long for her liking. Heh, since I went through a similar situation myself, I can kind of relate to what happened and how he feels, at least a little.
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2010-03-23, 22:33 | Link #3947 | |
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2010-03-24, 11:19 | Link #3949 | |
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Though if it wasn't for those goddamn bureaucrats sanctioning genetic research and species splicing, I could have gotten my own catgirl to date and love.
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2010-03-24, 12:15 | Link #3951 |
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo~..................... .don't tread on my dreams you tube of photons!
Back to the topic, I recently started working and had this female colleague 3 years younger than me. She has the exact same name as a Claymore and she is cute! Until I feel so deflated when she said she is studying medicine.
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2010-03-24, 12:56 | Link #3952 | |
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2010-03-24, 16:23 | Link #3954 | |
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2010-03-24, 16:41 | Link #3955 |
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I don't think her field of study is a major factor in relationships. If anything, you guys would have something to talk about.
Something small, but enough to make me react, happened today. Basically, Korean girl called me "oppa" in an all happy and cutesy way. For those who don't know what that means, it essentially would be if a Japanese girl called you "oniisan." Guuuhhh... |
2010-03-24, 18:10 | Link #3956 |
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On that "being a diamond" thing, don't get too weird. Too unique is not a good thing, and don't very transparently do things just to avoid conformity.
Just... be yourself. Remember it's the nice, stable guys the girls always eventually marry and have a bunch of kids with. Don't try to compete on the same level as the bad boys who just get casual sex and wind up in jail on drug charges.
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2010-03-24, 18:42 | Link #3957 |
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Question: When my fiancé casually brings up something like: "Listened to this song on the radio. A girl dedicated it to her bf. It was really nice." Is he just bringing this casually or is he trying to tell me he would like me to do something special for him somehow? (Getting a little worried as his b-day approaches and after three years of gifts I'm a bit clueless.)
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2010-03-24, 20:07 | Link #3958 | |
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2010-03-24, 21:43 | Link #3959 | |
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But if he seems to like it, and you want to do something nice for him, I'd say go for it. You don't *have* to, but you know he likes it, so it's an easy win for you. =) |
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2010-03-25, 02:18 | Link #3960 | ||
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Lol Kaijo. Lol. |
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