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Old 2014-08-19, 08:49   Link #11101
SaintessHeart
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
CONGRATULATIONS!

Did you have to apply for a special marriage license?
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Old 2014-08-19, 08:51   Link #11102
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CONGRATULATIONS!

Did you have to apply for a special marriage license?
Nope, she has an S-pass, so all's good.

And thanks.
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Old 2014-08-19, 08:56   Link #11103
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Nope, she has an S-pass, so all's good.

And thanks.
What I meant is this. *runs*

Btw when you are having the ceremony drop me a call on what wine you want. I might be able to pull some contacts.
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Old 2014-08-19, 09:01   Link #11104
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What I meant is this. *runs*

Btw when you are having the ceremony drop me a call on what wine you want. I might be able to pull some contacts.
Heh. I'll shoot you if not for the fact I can see where you're coming from.

And I'll keep that in mind.
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Old 2014-08-19, 09:12   Link #11105
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Heh. I'll shoot you if not for the fact I can see where you're coming from.

And I'll keep that in mind.
No worries. I got a bunch of contacts I can't wait to utilise. Applying for flat yet?

Can I be the godfather of your daughter-*is shot*.
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Most of all, you have to be disciplined and you have to save, even if you hate our current financial system. Because if you don't save, then you're guaranteed to end up with nothing.
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Old 2014-08-19, 09:41   Link #11106
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No worries. I got a bunch of contacts I can't wait to utilise. Applying for flat yet?

Can I be the godfather of your daughter-*is shot*.
Need her to apply and get PR first.

And no.
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Old 2014-08-19, 09:54   Link #11107
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Why didn't she apply PR initially? As long as she has a fiance and a stable job, ICA would greenlight it.

And why can't I be the godfather? You can trust me!
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Old 2014-08-19, 10:02   Link #11108
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She did, wasn't approved. And applying for PR was part of the reason for registering our marriage anyway. Not so easy to get approved these days.

And, still no.
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Old 2014-08-19, 10:25   Link #11109
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GG Ascaloth, congratulations I'm still working on the whole dating thing but it really looks like I'm damn unlucky at times...

- I go camping to meet up with another 30 people.
- 13 of them leave less than 12h after I get there.
- Out of the rest, most girls are 19 year-old locals who come by at six pm and leave at midnight...and the rest (of the general "rest") are already in a relationship >_<

Not that I went camping to meet girls, but...it would have been nice to take one home as a souvenir :P
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Old 2014-08-19, 13:07   Link #11110
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
WOUH! Congratulations Ascaloth! May you guys have a long and happy marriage together
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Old 2014-08-19, 13:34   Link #11111
Xefi
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Join Date: Jun 2010
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Age: 35
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
wow, grats, yo. i'm still on my dating game for now. i'll report
back as well once i'm officially married with my girl. we both just starting out right now, but i've known her for more than 2 years.

wish me best of luck as i'll also hope for the best for you and your newly waffle, man.
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Old 2014-08-19, 16:52   Link #11112
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
Congratulations to you Ascaloth on your marriage
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Old 2014-08-19, 20:14   Link #11113
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Location: Diagonally parked in a parallel universe.
Age: 50
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
Well done good man. Now I'll be waiting to hear that you finally understand all the husband jokes out there.

Endless "It's funny because it's true" Soul
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Old 2014-08-22, 02:40   Link #11114
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Join Date: Apr 2014
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
Congratulations!
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Old 2014-08-28, 08:42   Link #11115
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Alright, so.

For any of the former usual suspects who's still reading and/or still gives a damn, an update on my situation. As of last Friday, 15/8/14, I am officially married.

Granted, my girl and I were simply registering at the local Registry of Marriages, which makes it more like an engagement than anything, and the wedding ceremony or whatever it might be would be held some time next year (in her hometown, for what it's worth). But either way, we're now husband and wife, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So, end of the dating game for me. You guys and girls keep up the good quest.
Congratulations!

Now that you have achieved a marriage, don't forget to maintain it. Like anything else that you want to last, it needs TLC. Best of luck!
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Old 2014-09-01, 10:22   Link #11116
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Location: The Neverlands
Age: 41
Well, I'm out of the online game.
Certainly don't like acting as spamfilter
And having the balls to jump in the deep end, even if holding my head above water,
Is kind of useless when it's for a jury assessing a synchronized swimming competition
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Old 2014-09-07, 02:41   Link #11117
solidguy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: In the dreams of beautiful women
Age: 26
Just experienced the infamous 'out of the blue' 20's break up. I don't really know what to do or how to cope with it. Most of my friends have been alienated by me because I spent most of my time with my gf so I guess it's shame on me for having nobody to really talk to. I don't know whether it is common for break ups and people get back together or what I don't know what's going on. We've been together a year and 2 weeks. We just had our anniversary and everything was fine. The last text pre-break up was on Monday night. After that she was MIA and finally decided to tell me it's over today. She seemed confused and hesitant to do it but I'm also aware that I could be clutch at straws looking for anything to fuel the denial. I've never had a relationship end on such bad terms and I'm confused myself. I've lost my appetite and have a knot in my stomach which I wikipedia'ed (lol) and are typical signs of 'heart-ache'. Can anybody offer anything at all I would appreciate anything right now
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Old 2014-09-07, 02:49   Link #11118
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Join Date: May 2008
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Life happens. Cut contact, altogether, and focus on other activities as much as possible. Dig into hobbies or work, go out with the friends you have, etc. Just give it time, it'll pass soon enough. And don't dwell on why.

In my case, I was the one who crushed someone's heart, also quite suddenly. It took several months before I got over it, and came out a stronger, somewhat changed person because of it. And besides, you're 21. It's normal.
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Old 2014-09-07, 02:55   Link #11119
solidguy
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Join Date: Jul 2009
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It is life. It's something I remember and keep telling myself. It will get better and I'm looking forward to it. It just sucks. I'll probably join the gym again and pick up a side sport. My fitness has been slack as of late I guess. I just started watching cowboy bebop so hopefully it doesn't end up having a significant romance storyline. Thank you for taking the time to reply I appreciate it
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Old 2014-10-06, 07:47   Link #11120
DonQuigleone
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Dublin, Ireland
Age: 30
TLDR: The cute girl I just had a date with is in now in Hospital! What should I do?

So I'm in a bit of a dilemma, and don't know how to proceed.

I went on a great date on Saturday, we had loads in common, she was beautiful, she laughed at my weird jokes, and I liked her personality, and we played chess! Very smart, bit absent minded, medical student, overall I felt we shared a lot of values. In addition, she didn't seem the confident type, so I feel like she might understand my own inexperience. Suffice to say, I really want to see her again.

This is where things get complicated. We're on the bus together going home (we live on the same line) and she says she forgot her keys at home(I mentioned she was absent minded...) , now this is very immediate and I panic a little, and I'm not sure what to do. I offer her some lame advice, and leave her to go on her way (she says she'll phone her housemate).

Now as I continue on my way home I feel a bit awkward, should I have least kept her company while she tried to get back into her house? Regardless I don't feel great about how I handled it.

Anyway, later in the evening I shoot her a text message saying I had a great time, would like to see her again, and inquiring if she got home fine. She doesn't reply.

Now in the past I've traded text messages, but I find it messy, as often the girl feign "busyness" by not replying to you promptly. I find this both annoying and anxiety inducing, so I decide to just call her and see where she's at. At this point she then tells me she's in hospital with a fractured pelvis! I respond as you would imagine. I keep things short as she doesn't sound eager to talk, I ask her to keep me posted, and she says she will.

Which leaves me where I am now. I'd really like to see her again, even in hospital if necessary, but I also can imagine she's not necessarily interested in seeing a guy she's had all of one date with while in that condition. I can also see this fizzing into nothing too, and I really want to give this one the best shot possible, as she's by far one of the best girls I've dated. What should I do? I'd like to call her again, when should I do so? I don't feel like I'm responsible, but I do feel indirectly responsible...
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