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They expect to earn $3,000 per month with a degree, and expect all doors to be open for them. Being monetarily motivated to work isn't a good thing and should only be done in desperation (economic downturn). And of all sorts, it is a business degree and the local market is bloody saturated with it. Sure there may be opportunities, but they don't expect it to come with more strings attached. Quote:
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What annoys me more is that I meet more and more people like that in my school, for even for that matter, locally. Decent conversations don't exist anymore, and gossip seems to be the single largest topic they can talk about. Quote:
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Yeah, accused of spouting bullshit again, then when it happens, they blame me for not telling them. It happened once when they are student leaders (I didn't get the position because of my middle school discipline records ) in high school, and I told them beforehand that mixing water with dry ice requires a proportion to have a sustained smoke effect for an investiture, or else the solid CO2 will form a layer of solid water on top preventing further reaction (quick-freezing reaction - chemistry). Warning not heeded, accused of talking bullshit. When the event became a disaster, I was accused of not saying it and trying to take credit. I had enough now. Quote:
And I wish I knew why they are being totally mean. The lack of seriousness in my personal nature pretty hijacks most of it : sometimes I can spout something so critically logical and true without being serious about it, and can quickly change between seriousness to being carefree. If they have a problem with people who move fast, it would be problem for them. So why are they wanting to force a change upon me when they have a problem with people who think differently? For example, here is a case in which they lack simple logic - we are discussing about a female classmate who opened a blogshop and wanted to make it big. He claims the business model will never work and take off, and says that most of this kind of businesses fail. Instead of studying solely why these kind of businesses fail, why doesn't he compare and contrast with those that succeed? This is called one-sided logic and he claims to be reality. What total bullshit.
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2010-06-02, 12:17 | Link #3787 |
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^I don't think so? Head hair does grow faster earlier in life. Maybe facial hair does become faster over time because it's removed more often but I'm not sure. Hair growth rate does change with the number of times its cut/shaved.
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2010-06-04, 04:49 | Link #3790 |
Komrades of Kitamura Kou
Join Date: Jul 2004
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Is there such a thing as "being too nice?"
All of my friends for almost 10 years tell me I am, and some say it's one of the reasons I'm still single. I've given it a lot of thought but I don't think I really understood what they meant because that's... well that's really who I am and who I like being. I rarely get angry if ever and I've never really harbored any hatred for anybody. |
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2010-06-04, 10:41 | Link #3792 | |
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But hey, some people can get pretty pleasantly surprised by this. Being a kind person is a virtue, not a curse. If there is anyone who'd not want you for being "too nice", they're just foolish and hardly worthy of your effort anyway. Too bad there are also people who abuse this to hurt you.
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2010-06-04, 10:44 | Link #3793 | |
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2010-06-04, 14:38 | Link #3794 |
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It's pretty difficult to know when someone is really faking kindness or are really genuinely being kind. However, in general, just be nice back. And being "too nice" in itself isn't a bad thing, it just makes the receiver of the kindness feel awkward. Not everyone is used to kindness in this world.
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2010-06-05, 02:38 | Link #3796 | |
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2010-06-05, 02:59 | Link #3797 |
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I guess I should have explained a bit better. By being too nice they mean that I almost always give people the benefit of the doubt even in serious situations, that I'm willing to be more accommodating than the usual person, that I always try to treat people with civility even in the more hostile of situations and that I tend to have neutral stance on arguments to try and get both sides to calm down.
Not to the extent of course of letting people walk all over me as I learned that the hard way a long time ago. I'm guessing their point is that I lack a bit of... assertion and aggression, so to speak. |
2010-06-05, 03:25 | Link #3798 | |
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2010-06-05, 03:30 | Link #3799 | ||
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Anyway, the big question is; do you like being yourself that you are now, or would you rather change your personality (or imitate this change) to look better in front of your friends? I know I couldn't and I made my friends realize that, even though it took quite a few years. Simply don't think of it as a problem, since it isn't one. It's just a different human nature that's harder to understand nowadays.
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2010-06-05, 04:02 | Link #3800 |
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Pearl of the Orient Seas
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I've checked every image hosting sites I know but I still can't find them original image of this avatar:
I just saw the avatar in google it's Sync from Tales of the abyss and I wanna make a sig out of it if there's an original pic I just wanna know if you guys have the original image if not, a good site to search for? i've tried photobucket, danbooru, safebooru, sankaku-chan, the TotA image thread and deviantart :< sorry, just desperate to make a new sig
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