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I think the right term for that was you thought you were betrayed... and then soon when he's at the hospital a unknown # texted you and said" your best bud's in the hospital and he said sorry for he cannot make it..." after that you said to yourself "screw that".. you thought it as a phone scam... then a few days after you were crying at a funeral... well that's the saddest part.. I wonder if that has hapened before.. hmmmm anyway I don't remember being betrayed but I remember my friends getting betrayed... like for instance my friend was talking to me saying how cool now because my friend has a new best bud.. I was happy for her... then I recieved news about my friend's best bud was backstabbing her.... but she never knew and I think she would be shocked if I tell her that... so I didn't and ended up as a secret... I felt like I was the one betraying her cause I can't do anything...... I guess that's betrayal right?
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2008-04-13, 01:18 | Link #22 | |
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2008-04-13, 06:34 | Link #24 | |
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sometimes... appointments that are more important that just came up is more important than the ones you have already appointed to.. kinda like family related probs.... sometimes those are reasons of a friendship being broken.. yes I think so too that why you were betrayed is less the worries.... I just came up with something... ain't not making to the apponted appointment is just an excuse to hate the person??? isn't that a bit more like your the one betraying your friend than you being betrayed?? seriously.. this betraying stuff is very confusing..
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2008-04-15, 13:25 | Link #26 |
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a friend of mine in the past attacked and confronted me and accused me of betraying him in which I really didn't do. I already forgive him but I will never forget what he did.
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2008-04-16, 04:41 | Link #28 |
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I was never really been betrayed or anything like that. I'm not really at that age yet where I make big commitments and the girls I have gone out to date haven't cheated on me.
I do have people who break of promises what I dislike, but those promises aren't anything big though. I'm also fairly good at character judgement, I don't make commitments with people I know they will break. |
2008-04-16, 11:07 | Link #30 |
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Hm, no. I mean yes, I might want to tease him/her later on, but I never use betrayal as a method of retribution, because that's just contradictory for many reasons. Depending on your form of revenge, it could or could not be wise. But yes, I am speaking from experience, but I am after all a "nice guy" (but wouldn't want to get on a nice boat!).
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2008-04-16, 13:59 | Link #32 |
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I was betrayed by someone.....
And now he is dead. JUST KIDDING! In all honesty, I don't remember any "betrayal" that has warranted me to become furious or anything. So I guess I can relate to the second poster.
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2008-04-16, 14:56 | Link #33 |
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Betrayal can happen at any given moment, you can never really predict what others are about to do. Keep your guard up at all times and always be ready for it. People may say that they are trustworthy but I'll be honest... they only say that because they want to keep a good image of themselves. It's not wise to fully trust someone.
Everyone is out there for themselves. We can't expect anyone to be there for us or stick to our side. I'm not saying that everyone should just ditch their friends or anything, they're good to have fun with... but that's all they're good for. Aside from that we're all alone in this world. There's only one person that truly cares about you and that's you yourself. This is all my opinion and I know that a lot of people will disagree with me, but that's to be expected because we all have different views. |
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2008-04-16, 15:34 | Link #35 | |
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I do have friends that come to me for help through tough times and I do see them through. However; I always lose a little respect towards them for being so weak. But like I said before, friends are always good for a laugh... I just don't expect anything more from them. |
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2008-04-16, 15:57 | Link #37 | |
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If you think you're important enough that I'd care about your respect for me, then obviously you have a little bit of an ego problem as well. Don't attack people here, it's a forum. I'm just expressing my opinion like I clearly stated. People will have different views on everything, you can't do anything about that. Quote:
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And while I disagree with 75% of what you say, there's the 25% that makes sense. For example, I do not completely trust most people. However, there are still a few, up to 5 people, mostly family members, that I do trust fully. From what you're saying, you don't place any trust in your friends, which doesn't make sense. That's like saying you would treat a random person on the street the same as you treat your friend. I do place some trust in my friends, not too much so that I will get depressed and suicidal if they betray me, but enough to have a special relationship that is more than just merely acquaintances. I used to think that only I care for myself in the past, but my opinion completely changed after watching the masterpiece that is Haibane Renmei, so thank you anime.
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