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HasuMasu · 2011-08-05, 07:22

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Originally Posted by synaesthetic

"Bump and grind" is retarded. If you want to fuck, go fuck. Don't dryhump each other in public, that's disgusting and rude.

Learn to dance classical dance like a civilized being.

"Damn kids with your techno music and electric toothbrushes!!"

Throne Invader · 2011-08-05, 11:44

Sometimes or rather usually when I see people "bump and grind"on the dance floor(course on very rare occurences), I usually just laugh. My friends laugh too and make fun of it. Guess it just really depends on the mood of the music but I'd honestly never dance like that in public. It's just really awkward to look at in a public place moreso if there are multiple partners. I remember the first time me and a close friend spotted a couple bumping and grinding. It was quite traumatic.

Edijs · 2011-08-05, 13:12

Wich movie type is better watch in cinema with girl? At home we have watched many movies, but in cinema?

Samari · 2011-08-05, 15:51

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Originally Posted by Edijs

Wich movie type is better watch in cinema with girl? At home we have watched many movies, but in cinema?

What? Going to the movies? Should the be same. Go see the movie that seems the most interesting to the both of you.

Endless Soul · 2011-08-05, 15:52

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Originally Posted by Edijs

Wich movie type is better watch in cinema with girl? At home we have watched many movies, but in cinema?

I've had the most success with comedies. However, everyone is different.

lightsenshi · 2011-08-05, 16:10

Yes, those darn kids. The next thing you know, they'll all be wearing pants and running around with short hair.

Mystique · 2011-08-05, 18:59

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Originally Posted by FragrantFlora

Sometimes or rather usually when I see people "bump and grind"on the dance floor(course on very rare occurences), I usually just laugh. My friends laugh too and make fun of it. Guess it just really depends on the mood of the music but I'd honestly never dance like that in public. It's just really awkward to look at in a public place moreso if there are multiple partners. I remember the first time me and a close friend spotted a couple bumping and grinding. It was quite traumatic.

Yeah Samari, you knew you were gonna enlight a flame with that question, especially given Syn's recent response to it, lol.

It's definitely a cultural thing, I grew up learning how to move my hips and butt with no sexual connotations (as kids, its just dance), methinks it's safe to say there's less hangup with it with black or hispanic/latin America peeps than there'd be with other races/cultures on the whole.
Ever tried merengue or the lambada? As an adult I know where my thoughts were leading to when there's a guys hand at the small of your back, you keep your eyes on each other, your bodies are pressed close and you both swing your hips in sync, it's intense~~
Even though it does require focus on steps so you're in sync with your partner and don't bash into them, it's still can act as foreplay between a couple that clicks on well, or just be a bunch of fun for kids who try it within their own cultures.

Dance is a free form of expression to any kind music, albiet a good sense of rythmn and steps takes it to a higher level, but it's not always dependant on one's feet only.

Although given the stories I'm hearing, makes me wonder what goes on in American high schools recently and what you kids try to attempt to do *amused*.

Flinch · 2011-08-05, 19:18

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Originally Posted by Mystique

Although given the stories I'm hearing, makes me wonder what goes on in American high schools recently and what you kids try to attempt to do *amused*.

It's nothing worth being proud of.

Samari · 2011-08-05, 19:30

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Originally Posted by Mystique

Yeah Samari, you knew you were gonna enlight a flame with that question, especially given Syn's recent response to it, lol.

Yes. Social experiment I guess.

Lost Cause · 2011-08-05, 20:09

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Originally Posted by Kafriel

Looks like it's just us two on this one

Dancing is a show, people put on an act. When you're dancing jive, you have to be smiling. When you're dancing tango, you must always keep eye contact. In a similar way, there's a certain air you must give off when dancing this kind as well, whether you actually like it or not; although I find it natural to like it...
I've been meaning to ask though, how come we're talking about dancing, did anything happen?

Actually three, if you saw my post!

Khu · 2011-08-05, 20:22

There's a difference between bump and grind...and violently dry thrusting.

One is/can be sexy, the other one is just weird.

Besides, there is no better way to flaunt coupleness than to engage in some slow bumping and grinding lol.

synaesthetic · 2011-08-05, 20:44

To be honest I don't care what other people do; I don't go to clubs, so it's not like I'll ever see people furiously rubbing their genitals against each other.

Personally, though, I don't really enjoy dancing as much as some people do--mostly because I only know two dances and I'm not very good at them.

However, there's just something... very epic and very romantic about classical ballroom dancing, with the lovely gowns, the slow, string-heavy music, the click of your heels against the stone floor...

It'd be pretty hard to dance "nasty" in a floofy dress and petticoats.

Knightrunner · 2011-08-05, 21:14

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Originally Posted by synaesthetic

It'd be pretty hard to dance "nasty" in a floofy dress and petticoats.

Some people can can get very creative like the naughty secretary

DonQuigleone · 2011-08-05, 21:20

You know, all this talk of Genital rubbing makes me think I'm reading about Chimps in heat, and not people...

Ascaloth · 2011-08-05, 23:35

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Originally Posted by Knightrunner

Some people can can get very creative like the naughty secretary

And there are some 'classical' dances out there which would make 'bump n' grind' look positively virginal.

dukenukem · 2011-08-05, 23:57

Since i have never dated before,do women like it better if you are more straightforward with them?

Samari · 2011-08-06, 01:18

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Originally Posted by dukenukem

Since i have never dated before,do women like it better if you are more straightforward with them?

Anyone appreciates honestly. Shouldn't matter what the gender is. Why would you have a reason to be deceptive?

dukenukem · 2011-08-06, 01:44

I have no reason to be deceptive,just asking since i have never been in a relationship.

Samari · 2011-08-06, 06:10

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Originally Posted by dukenukem

I have no reason to be deceptive,just asking since i have never been in a relationship.

You should still be straightforward about whatever it is you believe you should be straightforward about. I'm guessing you're talking about your relationship history, or lack there of. I told my girlfriend that she would be my first if we got together, and she didn't believe me at first, but it was the truth. That didn't stop her from falling in love with me. It's not something you should have to tell the world, but if a girl asks you shouldn't have to lie about it. Just tell the truth. If that is a dealbreaker for someone, that's ridiculous. Even at your age. If I was interested in a girl at the age of 28 and she had never been in a serious relationship before, that wouldn't stop me from wanting to try and date her if I was really into her.

Edijs · 2011-08-06, 06:12

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Originally Posted by Endless Soul

I've had the most success with comedies. However, everyone is different.

But if there is no comedies and is like Action movie and a Romantic and she wants to see romantic but i want action

, at home yes download comedy and watch

2011-08-05, 11:44	Link #9442
Throne Invader Protecting the Throne Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Asia Tour Age: 32	Sometimes or rather usually when I see people "bump and grind"on the dance floor(course on very rare occurences), I usually just laugh. My friends laugh too and make fun of it. Guess it just really depends on the mood of the music but I'd honestly never dance like that in public. It's just really awkward to look at in a public place moreso if there are multiple partners. I remember the first time me and a close friend spotted a couple bumping and grinding. It was quite traumatic. __________________ It's time to start letting her make her own decisions. - Mom's dermatologist~

2011-08-05, 16:10	Link #9446
lightsenshi Author Join Date: Nov 2010 Age: 53	Yes, those darn kids. The next thing you know, they'll all be wearing pants and running around with short hair. __________________ Claymore: Beginnings

2011-08-05, 20:44	Link #9452
synaesthetic blinded by blood Author Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Oakland, CA Age: 40	To be honest I don't care what other people do; I don't go to clubs, so it's not like I'll ever see people furiously rubbing their genitals against each other. Personally, though, I don't really enjoy dancing as much as some people do--mostly because I only know two dances and I'm not very good at them. However, there's just something... very epic and very romantic about classical ballroom dancing, with the lovely gowns, the slow, string-heavy music, the click of your heels against the stone floor... It'd be pretty hard to dance "nasty" in a floofy dress and petticoats. __________________ Indie science fiction author and all-around weirdo: Check out my original fiction here! Read an excerpt from my sci-fi novel Binary System!

2011-08-05, 13:12	Link #9443
Edijs Eddy Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: LV Age: 30	Wich movie type is better watch in cinema with girl? At home we have watched many movies, but in cinema?

2011-08-05, 20:22	Link #9451
Khu そんなやさしくしないで。。。 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NSW, Australia Age: 29	There's a difference between bump and grind...and violently dry thrusting. One is/can be sexy, the other one is just weird. Besides, there is no better way to flaunt coupleness than to engage in some slow bumping and grinding lol.

2011-08-05, 21:20	Link #9454
DonQuigleone Knight Errant Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 35	You know, all this talk of Genital rubbing makes me think I'm reading about Chimps in heat, and not people...

2011-08-05, 23:57	Link #9456
dukenukem bleach fan Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: desert of arizona Age: 41	Since i have never dated before,do women like it better if you are more straightforward with them?

2011-08-06, 01:44	Link #9458
dukenukem bleach fan Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: desert of arizona Age: 41	I have no reason to be deceptive,just asking since i have never been in a relationship.