2021-01-19, 23:49 | Link #161 |
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I don't know if I'd precisely call him a "victim". But trauma is real, as is social anxiety and depression, and once you fall it's harder to get back up, and gets harder every single day.
Concerning his physique, in the LN it says that he was actually quite athletic and intelligent all the way through most of junior high. Then near the end of junior high he built his own computer for fun and got hooked on it, let his grades slip, and ended up in a delinquent school. Also, it may be noted that originally he did take the first step himself. Up until Roxy showed up, Rudeus wasn't even willing to go as far as the yard. He stayed inside the house exclusively. It took courage for him to simply step outside. But this story's sort of about the combination, him struggling to make achievements on his own and receiving aid from others and gradually changing. Yes, currently he's still not far from what he once was. But dedicating himself to something once more without fear of failure, stepping out, recognizing that even well beyond where he had the courage to go he really had nothing to fear, are big milestones specifically because he's so far down. It's a big step for a level 1 to become a level 2, even if in terms of actual battle prowess they're still as useless as a wet noodle. He was designed to be a level 1 (or, to be fair, more like -1), so it'll take a while before he becomes anything great. But it's an interesting journey that takes place in a beautiful and fascinating world. |
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2021-01-20, 01:53 | Link #163 | |
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At least for MT, I think this is done alright and did give me some mindgasms. I guess it could be also due to what you alluded to. The epic parts are not being obvious. Many a times, a fantasy story, isekai or not, starts talking about some historical demonloard or great evil blah blah during first episode exposition and makes everything kind of anti-climatic and predictable. MT knows how to build its scale step by step and creates a 'pull' from that. So other than my dislike for Rudy and the nice stuff that happens to him in sometimes unbelievably convenient ways, it is enjoyable as a fantasy story for me. Though he does get to points where he gets challenged and requires aid and allies to overcome them (iirc, the work ended so long ago...). But it's going to take a while to get 'epic'. |
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He also doesn't feel like he doesn't deserve this life. The show has frustratingly chosen not to address this and that's the issue. You can't talk about change and moving on if you don't address what you're moving on from. My complaints exactly. For all this talk about becoming a better person, there is a reluctance to air out the dirty laundry. Quote:
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Yes, the show is clearly focused on his own hangups. To what extent it's reluctant? It has yet to address his feelings regarding the treatment of his family, which I guess isn't surprising. Mooching off his family for twenty years would mean he didn't feel all that attached to begin with. We did? That helps my point though. He had chances, people reached out to him, but he rejected them and that's on him. Sure they are. In this particular case, he regrets wasting his life, the choice he made to be a shut in. Did I miss his remorse for mistreating his old family?
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2021-01-21, 01:37 | Link #171 | |
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And honestly, from what I've heard, this isn't really all that far-fetched. Hikikomori is a huge problem in Japan, tons of people who just lock themselves away and try to forget the world outside of their cramped room even exists. |
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2021-01-24, 00:40 | Link #172 |
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I need to refresh my brain a bit because my memories are quite jumbled
I think Roxy left way too fast? or maybe there is really no more Roxy in future event? The ending song though.. the 3 girls <3 They adapted Rudeus' past really well. It is enough to build sympathy toward him from viewers because we can relate to his past struggles and confidence-crisis state. Roxy at the beginning though.. is it really happened? I don't think I've seen that in manga |
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Japan is rather old fashioned and behind when it comes to mental issues so he was most likely never given any kind of treatment. Either way so was he the one most hurt by himself. |
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2021-01-24, 02:13 | Link #174 |
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I at the least have to agree that Japan seems a little behind when it comes to mental health. Take a look around, for instance, and tell me how many stories you know in which people receive any kind of psychiatric or psychological help, whether for a mental condition or for trauma. Thing is, while plenty of people get over this sort of stuff over here, there is very frequently some involvement of therapists, doctors, maybe a church, but some individuals who make it their job to listen, consult and help the person to overcome problems. Even with help severe trauma is very difficult to overcome. Without help, it's all too easy to go into a death spiral as happened to the hero.
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2021-01-24, 02:30 | Link #175 | |
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It was in the manga it just wasn't as clear.
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And perhaps a more cynical explanation is that he really doesn't feel particularly grateful enough to his previous family to feel any great remorse even now. Not because he's inherently a shitty person (which you subscribe to), but because his mental state was broken during the decades long downward spiral. During that period, he probably never felt, or have completely forgotten the feeling of being grateful to his parents. You can say he shouldn't have. You can also say people with mental disorders shouldn't do irrational things. This doesn't excuse him per se, nor does it excuse people with actual mental disorders doing things that hurt others. But it's an explanation. And it suggests that if he no longer has the sickness, perhaps this time he can behave in a way you would expect a decent person would.
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Due to how extremely OTT the bullying was portrayed to the point of making me laugh at the absurdity of it all (school front-gate naked crucifixion in the age of smartphones, really?), I find it difficult to relate to him which is probably a given when I'm not a hikki-NEET myself. But it's almost like the bullying itself comes from a fantasy world and is 2EDGY4ME .
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and in Asia, it is uncommon to accept mental sickness as real problem. If you said you have a mental problem, people will bring you to exorcist or priest. |
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