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2010-04-03, 20:50 | Link #4082 | ||||
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Currently, at writing this, AEST (Daylight savings ended last night) is 11:50AM, so currently it should be 1:50AM in the UK VM me if it doesn't make sense, yeah?
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2010-04-03, 22:04 | Link #4083 | ||||
I don't give a damn, dude
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2010-04-04, 08:09 | Link #4084 | |||||||||
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But I have to agree that characters like hers tend to lead others to misunderstand. Usually people who react violently to personal issues like trust and ECRs (Extremely Close Relations) tend to be strong believers in friendship and loyalty : something erroneously misplaced in many people's EQ inventories. Quote:
However I don't think a girl who cuts herself extensively on her shoulders and arms is trying to demonise me. Quote:
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I didn't cave in, I just let things slide because I know she can't do much to me. Most of the time, I act scared so as to see her cute face : the dumb thing about her is that she continuously heap threats at me that it loses its meaning, and yet she still continues to do so. I suppose if she knows about it, she is trying to get my attention since most guys simply fear her, she is abusive BUT she is a girl, so the guys can't hit her, and don't want to risk getting incapacitated when accidentally dissing her off. And of all the girls, why can I only communicate with eccentric types (i.e, tsundere, emo, fujoshi) while I keep dissing off the normal ones? Quote:
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Also, you made it sound as though that chasing a girl like that is like speculating in the futures market. So.....I have to wait for a breakout? Bollinger or EMA?
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2010-04-04, 10:37 | Link #4085 |
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In my opinion, Nobody is normal, as everyone is an individual. and the people who you might look at as "normal" are just that. So generally I seek out people who are different as they are more interesting people to interact and talk to with
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2010-04-04, 11:32 | Link #4086 | ||
I don't give a damn, dude
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So wait, she was trying to hook you up with imouto?
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2010-04-04, 17:37 | Link #4087 | |||
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Sorry, had to. Again, no such thing as normal.
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2010-04-04, 21:21 | Link #4088 |
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So I thought a vacation would be good for me to stop thinking about this girl. Went out of town for a while, limited internet access, lots of distractions, a bunch of cousins and their friends to chill with, you know the ideal situation to forget about stuff.
Really didn't work. I have school tomorrow and chances are I will run into her. Along with other reasons, making me dread school. On a side note, something interesting happened during my little vacation far away from home. A girl entered the house I was in (which belonged to my cousins) and she was one of their friends. She was in glasses and had no makeup on and was shocked to see a new guy, me, in there. The next day she came back in, this time without glasses, with makeup on, and was talking to my aunt about her perfume, all whilst slowly trying to approach me. Now here's the thing. I don't like it when a girl thinks she has to layer herself with cosmetics to be beautiful. I would take the real girl with no makeup and glasses over the fake one any day, easily. Second, I don't have a sense of smell, so that perfume thing was just useless. Third, I live pretty far away from her. Fourth, I already have a girl I'm interested in. So I feel kinda bad since I suddenly left that area to return back home her. Hope that girl didn't come back again, wearing her cosmetics, hoping to see me, because I'm way far away from there now. But still, it's really sad something like that happened. Maybe it's just me exaggerating what I observed (she might not have actually been interested in), but I don't like being admired in that light since I can never fulfill any expectations like that. That's long gone and doesn't matter anymore though. I have to focus on the life ahead of me. But it's weird, that trip did do one thing positive for me. It garnered me a lot more self-respect. I went through it willingly admitting that I was a nerd and a geek to the younger cousins and their friends, and found myself suddenly the comedy star of the neighborhood (I'm funny? What?) I received word today from my family that me not being there actually made the younger kids (ages 7-13) cry. The only way I know this improved me positively is that today is one of the few days I have not actually considered suicide. Am I becoming optimistic and self-approving? What is this shit!? But I feel like that may help me in the end, even if I never proclaim love to this girl. |
2010-04-04, 22:30 | Link #4089 |
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Well said, Arbitres. Makes me want to cry reading it (I'd give rep, but I have to spread some around before I can rep another one of your posts again).
Which has bought me to finally bring up this rather small (yet big) issue I have. I wanted to avoid it just in case it sounded like I was trying to steal limelight. Therefore, I have wrapped it up in spoiler tags below: Spoiler for move along, you don't need to read this if you don't want to:
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2010-04-04, 22:43 | Link #4090 | |
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2010-04-04, 23:07 | Link #4091 | |
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2010-04-04, 23:34 | Link #4092 | |||
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Apparently yes. She says "I am the perfect guy for her, though a little gay". *facepalm*
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At any rate, I am washing my hands out of this. Hopefully I can still act as an older brother to that imouto and a friend to that madwoman. Quote:
But seriously, you should think through it before taking your next step.
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So what's your opinion exactly? Do you like her or do you think she's mental and want to prevent getting too close to her? Because if it's both, I'd almost think you're some kind of masochist |
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2010-04-05, 04:57 | Link #4094 | ||
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2010-04-05, 05:13 | Link #4095 | |
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Please tell me you didn't mean it. That sounds indeed pretty hypocritical, not to mention incredibly offensive.
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2010-04-05, 07:02 | Link #4096 | |||
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Though I would prefer if she is less abusive towards me. Otherwise, her good points certainly outweigh her general behaviour towards other people. Plus, her softer side makes her look cute, though only her close friends see that. Now that you have pointed out about the hating her sister part, I have a new thing to tease her with : by calling her a siscon. Wish me luck that I don't die or be permanently paralysed. Quote:
Yes, and I would probably die before I can claim my winnings.
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2010-04-05, 08:05 | Link #4097 | |
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I'm sorry, but if you suddenly make such a statement you have to expect that someone will be taken aback and go into discussion mode. I don't care if you don't want to see two guys making out - that's your right. But saying that it's inherintly wrong and disgusting does ineed not sit well with me. I'm not trying to pick a fight, I just don't understand how two guys making out can be "wrong" while to girls making out is perfectly acceptable. You don't have to answer, but please don't talk over my head and make it sound like I'm waiting for a chance to jump at you and throw insults.
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2010-04-05, 09:06 | Link #4098 |
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Well, I still say think about it pretty carefully and be absolutely sure of yourself before you decide on what to do. The worst thing that can happen is that you end up on shaky ground with a good friend because you didn't look before you leaped.
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2010-04-05, 10:07 | Link #4099 |
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Here is something interesting by an actress named Aya Sugimoto....
Spoiler for TL : slightly NSFW, courtesy Sankaku:
Minus a few other parts, the bolded lines are rather true. And I lol-ed at the red bolded line.
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2010-04-05, 14:40 | Link #4100 |
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Didn't expect my happiness and positive energy I had yesterday to die miserably in a fire storm today. Luckily it's unrelated to this infatuation of mine. I didn't really see her today much, but tomorrow chances are I'll be able to spend some time with her.
At least the sakura are in full bloom over here, makes the scenery at least a little prettier. |
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