2007-11-27, 23:17 | Link #222 | |
Yurippe is mai waifu
Join Date: Sep 2006
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Anyway, I'm not friends with her just so I could get a girlfriend, in case you're wondering. I enjoy the time we spend together as friends.
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2007-11-27, 23:31 | Link #223 | |
Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
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But you should know her better than I do. I'm pretty laid back, so maybe my advice isn't the best. Ok, here's the plan. Find an opportunity to go out somewhere. It can be anywhere: restaurant, park, ice cream shop, (although I prefer not going to movies). The only thing is, it's got to be completely natural when you ask, like you just suddenly feel hungry or have a craving. And when you go there, make sure it's not going into "date" territory. As in, if she's about to pay, let her. And just chill out and have a nice time. This will be a good time to see how she feels about you. If you don't feel those "romance" vibes after a few times out, it's probably not going to happen, because she appears to view you as a friend. |
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2007-11-28, 01:13 | Link #225 | |
Yurippe is mai waifu
Join Date: Sep 2006
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Spoiler for Us! D::
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Any further suggestions? Thanx a bunch!
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2007-11-28, 04:11 | Link #226 | ||
Kaede/Ama Fan boy
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Australia >< It suxz
Age: 32
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Thank you thats a very admirable speech it really means alot ^^. Im already trying to improve communication with her i was talking with her today ^^ it went well. I guess i am the person who wants to be able to hold a girl show affection on a non sexual level, cradle her in my arms and tell her how much i love her. I wanna thank all you guys especially you Ledgem and Fome you have really boosted my confidence and gave me great advice you should be very proud of yourself, you are great people full of wonderful advice. I truly thank you. Ill keep you updated on how things are going she hasnt replied but im staking alot on that she will ^^ once again thanks ill see you all later |
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2007-11-29, 00:40 | Link #230 |
Gillian-class Chibi
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Utah
Age: 35
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A comment somewhat related to the topic at hand, that is, dating:
There can be a problem with dating people with similar interests and social life. Namely, that there's a good chance neither one has ever really kissed anyone before. Which leads to awkwardness. *has just experienced this, and is not quite sure what to do* |
2007-11-29, 05:18 | Link #231 | |
~La-la Land~
Graphic Designer
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Seattle
Age: 37
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2007-11-29, 06:36 | Link #232 | |
Inactive Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
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It's like 1 year and 2 months now that I can't stop thinking about that guy and I still don't know if he's into boys or girls *sigh* just starting to be friends. Guess I'll figure it out sooner or later... but damn .. this is tough At least I'm so grateful I see him every day ^^ |
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2007-11-29, 21:21 | Link #235 | |
King of Nothing
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Hell
Age: 32
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Thats nothing but a good thing.......mabye she is even the one I LOVE YOU TOBI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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2007-11-30, 00:42 | Link #236 |
Kaede/Ama Fan boy
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Australia >< It suxz
Age: 32
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Well i got her reply back that is from jamie and i must say it wasnt what i expected....one of my closet friends told me she went off her head and swore and was going well if he thinks thats gonna change anything well hes wrong and yeah well i decided id stay away from her and not sit near her at school and the rest of the people we hang out with followed and sat with me, she didnt like that at all then she made a point of giving everyone a christmas card but me, i got real annoyed at that. i thought things would work out they didnt im kinda real upset so im not gonna write much more sorry ppl ill post some advice when i feel abit better in the mean time im just gonna watch some sad anime and play a midsummers day Resosnance and Narcissu again...thanks for trying guys ill still keep u updated in case of a chnage who know maybe at senior college i might meet a girl ^^
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2007-11-30, 00:46 | Link #237 | |
Yurippe is mai waifu
Join Date: Sep 2006
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2007-11-30, 03:17 | Link #238 | |
Love Yourself
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Northeast USA
Age: 38
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My only fear is what happens if we would be separated physically for a very long period of time. If our experiences are very different, and if we're not "synchronizing" with each other as often (sharing experiences and thoughts - can be done via phone, but it's not as easy as when you're just walkiing together, for example), would we potentially grow apart? It depends on the individuals, and it's a very real possibility.
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2007-11-30, 17:10 | Link #239 | |
Senior Member
Join Date: Dec 2005
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I suggest trying to find hobbies aside from anime. You need to give people the impression that you aren't dependent, but just acting confident isn't enough. One needs to change his outlook, really try to find other things to occupy his life. There was this one other girl I used to like, but she totally despised me because she thought I was a stalker. So I got over it, starting playing guitar, got in a band, and played varsity sports, pretty much never seeing her again. After about 2 years, she actually started talking to me, which I thought was kind of odd, and by that time I didn't really care. The point is, you need to pry yourself from things that are going to drown you in romantic desperation. That means, stop watching so much sappy anime. Honestly, it's not good for people like us. |
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