2010-07-05, 12:46 | Link #5522 |
廉頗
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Massachusetts
Age: 34
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I think I have the opposite problem. Usually, during conversation, people break eye contact momentarily every few seconds. For some reason, I never do unless I consciously force myself to, lol. Not really a problem I guess but I don't want to come off as some kind of murderer with a death stare.
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2010-07-05, 14:57 | Link #5523 | |
PolyPerson!
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Northern VA
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I tend to keep eye contact as well, and it's been known to make some uncomfy (those who mention it, I do make an effort, out of respect for them, to not look them dead in the eye lol) But then, I'm an alpha personality too LOL
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2010-07-05, 15:35 | Link #5525 | |
「Darkly Charismatic 」
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: The Lounge
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A "leader" of the pack, if you would say. This is a very good trait, and can help in a lot of cases.
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2010-07-05, 17:55 | Link #5527 |
The AnimeSuki Pet kitten
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Personally, I do it because I am shy. I would look at someone to make sure they weren't looking at me, and then the second they look my way I pretend to look elsewhere. To me, it's more or less a sign of uncertainty.
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2010-07-05, 19:20 | Link #5531 | |
「Darkly Charismatic 」
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: The Lounge
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It was not my intention to offend as I did not mean it in the "jerkface" way.
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2010-07-05, 20:11 | Link #5532 |
You're Hot, Cupcake
Join Date: Aug 2008
Age: 42
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I seem to exude two different effects on women - strongly correlated to their age.
Married women/40+ women think I'm handsome, polite, good to talk with and that I dress well. Single women below the age of 30 all give me a look as if they wishI was dead and do their best to completely ignore me. It gives me the chills...and a bit of despair. I can't figure out why only more mature/attached women like me.... I sometimes wonder if looking younger than I actually am has something to do with it. I am 29 but most people think I'm 21-23 before I tell them I'm 29. Last edited by Last Sinner; 2010-07-05 at 20:26. |
2010-07-05, 20:30 | Link #5533 | ||
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The "beta males" can still stand up for themselves, but they will tend to defer to the alpha. Most "nice guys" fall into this role, because, being nice guys, they generally don't want to make waves. As far as the "wandering eye" thing goes... wandering eye simply means a guy looks around at other girls. It's genetic. If taken further, it means he actively desires other women, most likely a player. Lastly, all I can say about "eye contact" is that some people just have problems with. Those with Asperger's usually have trouble making eye contact, and they'll try to look away or look down. It's really hard to look at someone, and it's something I've had to learn to do. Quote:
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2010-07-05, 20:30 | Link #5534 | |
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2010-07-05, 23:58 | Link #5536 | |
World's Greatest
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
Age: 36
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2010-07-06, 00:13 | Link #5537 | |
Director
Join Date: Feb 2010
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It's not something I think about, but more something that comes naturally for me. To me it's natural to look somebody in the eye when speaking. |
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2010-07-06, 01:32 | Link #5538 | |
Pretentious moe scholar
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Age: 37
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I'm still not sure if she was trying to pick me up or not. And no, I in fact have never been told I looked like Tom Cruise prior to that, although when I asked a guy at my university his opinion on the matter he said he could kind of see a resemblance. As a random aside, I've also been told I look kind of like Uwe Boll.
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2010-07-06, 04:05 | Link #5539 |
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Join Date: Jul 2010
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I am young, just about 25, and I am married, my wife is also my 1st love, and I am her 1st too. I heard that everybody said 1st love never lasts long, we have been together for 8 years already. So I do hope that our relationship can last long.
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