Dating

[synaesthetic]

I don't deal with it easily. This time of year is the worst. Every holiday season I go into a depression, what with all my friends going to see their families, leaving me alone.

Perhaps if I had a partner, the beginnings of a family of my own, it would be less painful, but I'm too busy trying to survive in this shithole economy, much less date and have the money to be a social adult.

[Cinocard]

I do believe that my actions have shown that I'm more mature.

Oh, I believe you are. But the path to regain someone trust is long and painful. I can only wish you good luck

Well as I said, the problem is not who are right, you or they. It is already too late when we can prove that.

Your parents are so obstinate. They refuse to believe that their action against your relationship is useless. You need to change their mindset to: "It's all useless. My daughter won't fix her mistake. Then as a parents, I will have to help her suffer less from that mistake." And that is by supporting you and Casey.

They chose to disown me rather than come to terms with the fact that they, in fact, have a daughter who dates other women.

I'm earnestly sad, for their ego is greater than the love and bond you and they share.

Every holiday season I go into a depression, what with all my friends going to see their families, leaving me alone.

Well I guess it's still fortunate for some of us Japanese still makes anime during American's holiday

[Miko Miko]

Hello Again.. Diff sort of Q This Time.

Okayy so I REALLY fancy this guy.. but he is so touchy with other girls. I am unsure if I should go for it or not. He is sweet and good looking but meh.. I dont know. He said he'd get with me but I dont know.

[Ascaloth]

Originally Posted by Miko Miko

Hello Again.. Diff sort of Q This Time.

Okayy so I REALLY fancy this guy.. but he is so touchy with other girls. I am unsure if I should go for it or not. He is sweet and good looking but meh.. I dont know. He said he'd get with me but I dont know.

Your emotional side is telling you the guy is hot, and you fancy him. Your rational side is telling you that he's suspiciously touchy, and a question mark with regards to his character.

In the absence of additional information about this guy, I would think the choice is obvious. Don't be so quick to get with him until you're more sure about the guy, Imouto-chan.

(That said, I think Narona-chan is going to stamp me with the "Pot-Kettle-Black" label for stealing a kiss from an unsuspecting lady....)

[Kusa-San]

Originally Posted by Miko Miko

Hello Again.. Diff sort of Q This Time.

Okayy so I REALLY fancy this guy.. but he is so touchy with other girls. I am unsure if I should go for it or not. He is sweet and good looking but meh.. I dont know. He said he'd get with me but I dont know.

As Ascaloth said, you need to know him better. If you want a serious relationship with him don't rush thing until you're sure that you'll be happy with him.

[Throne Invader]

Originally Posted by Miko Miko

Hello Again.. Diff sort of Q This Time.

Okayy so I REALLY fancy this guy.. but he is so touchy with other girls. I am unsure if I should go for it or not. He is sweet and good looking but meh.. I dont know. He said he'd get with me but I dont know.

Have you gotten to know him well? How is he touchy? If it's only a pat on the back or on the shoulder of other girls, I don't see what's wrong. If it's somewhere else, don't go for him.

You'll have to describe him more though. People can start out as sweet and nice in the beginning. As you go through experiences together, your impressions of that person won't be the same. And he just simply said he'd get with you? How long have you known him?

[Narona]

Originally Posted by Ascaloth

(That said, I think Narona-chan is going to stamp me with the "Pot-Kettle-Black" label for stealing a kiss from an unsuspecting lady....)

I admit that reading the thoughts of a suspicious kiss-stealer boy who's sharing his suspicions about another suspicious boy is funny

Spoiler for .:

[Ledgem]

Originally Posted by Narona

I admit that reading the thoughts of a suspicious kiss-stealer boy who's sharing his suspicions about another suspicious boy is funny

As the saying goes, it takes one to know one

(Just kidding, Ascaloth - you may have stolen a kiss, but it was classy and not thievery.)

[Narona]

Originally Posted by Ledgem

(Just kidding, Ascaloth - you may have stolen a kiss, but it was classy and not thievery.)

Ya ya, as classy as James bond. But, Ascaloth, you should not act like James, don't play with the girls' feelings

[Miyuki-ism]

Ya, 'cause that fatal kiss is all you need.

Props to anyone that got that.

[Narona]

Originally Posted by Miyuki-ism

Ya, 'cause that fatal kiss is all you need.

Props to anyone that got that.

Fatal in more than one way, depending on the girl

[Miyuki-ism]

That's true.

Anyone get the reference yet? XD

[whitepearl]

Originally Posted by Miyuki-ism

That's true.

Anyone get the reference yet? XD

"A View to a Kill?"

Until we DANCE into the fire
that fatal kiss,
is all we need...

[Splitpersonality]

Does anyone here know Korean?

I'm trying to woo a little korean girl I like, and I'd prefer to do it in her first language, besides I've been meaning to learn it anyway :P

Went out shopping today to keep my mind off of being single, got a nice pea coat and some shirts, some nice new leather gloves. It's gonna be a good winter

[Ledgem]

Originally Posted by Narona

Ya ya, as classy as James bond. But, Ascaloth, you should not act like James, don't play with the girls' feelings

James Bond was totally not classy. He always came off as a womanizer to me. Maybe it was his cockiness that did it.

Originally Posted by Splitpersonality

Does anyone here know Korean?

I'm trying to woo a little korean girl I like, and I'd prefer to do it in her first language, besides I've been meaning to learn it anyway :P

Went out shopping today to keep my mind off of being single, got a nice pea coat and some shirts, some nice new leather gloves. It's gonna be a good winter

Is she a Korean from Korea? If not, prepare to be laughed at and potentially not taken seriously. So, being single is bothering you, huh? Care to share any thoughts?

[HayashiTakara]

Originally Posted by Splitpersonality

Does anyone here know Korean?

I'm trying to woo a little korean girl I like, and I'd prefer to do it in her first language, besides I've been meaning to learn it anyway :P

Went out shopping today to keep my mind off of being single, got a nice pea coat and some shirts, some nice new leather gloves. It's gonna be a good winter

All I have to say is, you might wanna be careful with doing that... you might end up being offensive to the person.

Myself being asian american can't stand people trying to talk to me in broken japanese or chinese, when I'm completely capable of speaking and understanding english.

[Splitpersonality]

Originally Posted by HayashiTakara

All I have to say is, you might wanna be careful with doing that... you might end up being offensive to the person.

Myself being asian american can't stand people trying to talk to me in broken japanese or chinese, when I'm completely capable of speaking and understanding english.

Her first language is Korean, she came to America only a couple of years ago, so she has some problems with English still, though it's not hard to talk to her or anything, she's picked it up very well there are still things she doesn't really get. I think the language is really nice and I plan on learning it either way, I figure if I can use it to make conversation with her and practice my accent I'll kill two birds with one stone!

I'll of course announce my attentions as well, I wouldn't just walk in and start speaking Korean unless it was amazingly perfect somehow :P

[Ascaloth]

Originally Posted by Narona

Ya ya, as classy as James bond. But, Ascaloth, you should not act like James, don't play with the girls' feelings

Never....!!!

....is what I'd like to say, but who knows how a first heartbreak would change my outlook on relationships, if it ever comes.

Originally Posted by Splitpersonality

Does anyone here know Korean?

I'm trying to woo a little korean girl I like, and I'd prefer to do it in her first language, besides I've been meaning to learn it anyway :P

You'd come off as a poser if you try that. So yeah, just do it naturally as you are; no need to go to extraordinary lengths just to get a girl interested in you.

If you've been meaning to learn Korean anyway, get her to teach you. You'll come across to her as more genuine that way, it'll give you two more time to get closer, and you get free tuition. Win-win-win.

Originally Posted by Splitpersonality

Her first language is Korean, she came to America only a couple of years ago, so she has some problems with English still, though it's not hard to talk to her or anything, she's picked it up very well there are still things she doesn't really get. I think the language is really nice and I plan on learning it either way, I figure if I can use it to make conversation with her and practice my accent I'll kill two birds with one stone!

I'll of course announce my attentions as well, I wouldn't just walk in and start speaking Korean unless it was amazingly perfect somehow :P

Sounds just like my situation with my girl, actually.

Then that's easy; teach her how to use better English, and get her to teach you how to use better Korean. Win-win.

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by Ascaloth

....is what I'd like to say, but who knows how a first heartbreak would change my outlook on relationships, if it ever comes.

I wish you luck. First heartbreaks suck. Big time.

[Miyuki-ism]

Originally Posted by whitepearl

"A View to a Kill?"

Until we DANCE into the fire
that fatal kiss,
is all we need...

Yup, that's the one!

I have yet to experiance heart break...