2009-12-02, 16:17 | Link #1 |
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Gender in Postbit
A lot of times, knowing the gender of a user can help see where he or she is coming from when they say something. Boys and girls obviously have different points of views, so yeah.
So, could the gender that we enter in our profile be put in the postbit, above or below the age field I guess. I apologize if this has been discussed. I did a search and didn't find anything, so yeah.
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2009-12-02, 18:42 | Link #4 |
Just call me Ojisan
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If I remember we used to have to displayed but it was decided to no longer make it visible so the option was turned off. At least, that is what I remember, I can't find the vB option that would turn it on (but then again vB seems to like to hide such options in the oddest of places so maybe I'm just not looking in the correct place).
It's not as if the info isn't there, if you want to check the gender then all you need do is look at the user's profile. I prefer this option myself instead of having it displayed in every post. |
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2009-12-02, 23:26 | Link #6 | |
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I'm with xris on the question of whether it should be displayed along with posts. Usually it's pretty obvious to me whether someone is male or female from the nature of what's written. If I'm uncertain or especially curious about a member, I'll just click their username and look at the profile. It only takes a second, and it does offer at least a veneer of privacy.
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2009-12-03, 00:05 | Link #7 |
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I'll throw in my two cents here:
In general, because it is usually irrelevant and because I can usually infer from the writing style, I prefer not to see the gender listed. It seems either unnecessary or redundant. That's to say nothing of the color it could give to the post for biased readers. I think there is more of an argument to be made for it on AS than on most other forums, though. We have a much higher portion of persons who speak English as a second language than most other forums, and the "gender voice" is often lost. Avatars here also communicate far less about gender than the avatars on other forums tend to (Xellos-_^ and JOJOS'STAR excepted...). And while "unspecified" on other forums almost always means "I'm a female and trying to hide", we have a number of users here who have refused to reveal their gender but are almost certainly male (I'd venture to say that the vast majority of the ones here staying mum on the issue are, in fact, male). Since the privacy for profile pages can be adjusted, that gives some leeway for those who are comfortable with their gender being stated as long as their contact info is hidden. I'm not arguing for gender to be listed beside the post, mind you. I'm just pointing out that some of the conventional thought we apply to other forums really may not apply here. I do think it is far more relevant than location, though, and perhaps at least as relevant as age.
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2009-12-03, 08:30 | Link #8 |
AS Oji-kun
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Neither here nor there, but just some interesting statistics on the AS membership.
Limiting the search to people who have posted at least once since 1/1/2009, we have the following tallies: Male: 4035 Female: 1644 Unspecified: 403 The number of unspecifieds is actually quite a bit smaller than I might have imagined. (Including all members however ancient produces a similar result.) Looking down the list of unspecifieds provides a lot of support for Kyuusai's viewpoint. There are many people in the list that I "know" to be male. So I'll withdraw my earlier comment on the tie between "unspecified" and "female." Remind me to ask james0246 sometime why he hasn't indicated his gender. (And, no, from PMs we've exchanged I don't think he's a woman hiding as a man.)
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2009-12-03, 10:06 | Link #9 | ||
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2009-12-04, 00:27 | Link #13 |
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I think its nice that the Internet lets my input be considered without being prejudiced by me being a dog/sloth/wombat/C'thulxian/shapeshifter.
I figure if someone reveals it fine... but otherwise who cares. I get *really* tired in MMOs of people (mostly young 'tards) obsessing over whether someone is of the gender of their character or not.
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2009-12-04, 00:53 | Link #14 | |
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Anyway, as to the discussion at hand, it could make posting slightly easier with an easy reference for pronoun gender, but even that is generally avoidable by substituting the username or a plural possessive pronoun. Other than that, I don't really see any pressing necessity to list it on the sidebar.
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2009-12-04, 03:01 | Link #15 | |
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I'm also in the same opinion as Vexx. Besides the covenience part doesn't really extend more than the usage of pronoun. Is my response going to be any different if I know the person I'm replying to is a girl, boy, a dog, or an inanimate object that mastered typing? As far as I'm concerned, nope.
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2009-12-04, 05:42 | Link #16 |
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I'd prefer to keep things neutral personally. If someone wishes to know the gender of another they can check their profile (if they choose to fill it out) or ask. Really though, it's the internet. Gender is about as transient as any other quality we decide to divulge. Three cheers for anonymity!
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2009-12-04, 11:26 | Link #17 |
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Does it really make sense to consider it from the standpoint of anonymity? Much like age and location, it doesn't have to be shared. Having it displayed in another location doesn't change that it or is not shared except in the case of some one choosing to set their gender but keeping their profile private. I think that's a pretty narrow case.
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2009-12-04, 12:15 | Link #18 | |
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2009-12-04, 14:13 | Link #19 | |
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Every once in a great while Ill realize someone is the opposite gender from what I thought they were but it happens rarely and usually Im amused with it. Personally I like not having it displayed since like its been already stated, does it matter what gender we're reading/replying to, it matters more the statement youre adding too/arguing with/answering. Gender is in the eyes of the beholder. Plus being neutral is fun Also it may interest monir to know that there are still people on this forum who mistake my gender on a daily basis
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