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World's Greatest
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: San Francisco
Age: 36
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2008-08-13, 14:51 | Link #684 | ||
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Plus, it looks kinda creepy if someone is only approaching the girls for chit-chat, and ignoring his own gender. Quote:
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2008-08-13, 16:56 | Link #685 | |
Honyaku no Hime
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: In the eastern capital of the islands of the rising suns...
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You're welcome for the inspiration, i kinda got worked up and had to state that all, I'm afraid. As for guys wanting hugs only... okay you're in your early twenties, i semi believe you, lol. But with that see, a few male friends sometimes tell me it's nice to snuggle and cuddle up and get comfy on a nice pair of breasts or if we're in your arms, then your arms (not hands) will gently lay on them... I'm not sure what to make of that *laughs* but i cannot beleive a guy has innocent thoughts 100% of the time (short of being distraught) Also the only kind of ... girl that a guy would hug and adore without potential gf thoughts has to either be a 'Miss Nice-girl' (yes we exist too) or a mother like figure. (Which makes us wanna hang ourselves if we're still single) But that's my interpretation on the female side, maybe some guys here can add on what kind of girls would make friend only material
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2008-08-13, 17:27 | Link #686 | |
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First off, the "hug vs hump" was more of a metaphor than a literal statement about innocent hugging. But since it's fun, let me try and expand on that more .
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Some guys appreciate having an attractive woman as a friend, while sincerely not wanting more. However, if a guy says he doesn't notice at all.......he's lying. But you already have pointed out much the same in your earlier post . I like the Miss Nice-girl type. Anyway, I'd agree a hug is not something one indulges in casually. Only close friends (male or female) get that treatment. As for the "potential gf" thoughts, they may pop into one's head occasionally, but if a guy is already settled in his romantic life, it's not really an issue. |
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2008-09-08, 09:14 | Link #687 |
Imouto-Chan♥
Graphic Designer
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: England
Age: 30
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Hi Hi! I need some helpp
okay I am dating this guyy,, he is 18.. my mum has no problem with it but i am worried if my dad finds out. He would kill me!!! He knows who the guy is but he has no idea we are going out. I dont know if i should be honest with him or keep hiding it from him. EVERYONE knows.. except him
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2008-09-08, 09:59 | Link #688 |
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Join Date: Mar 2004
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And you're 14? Which country are you in, j/w? It depends on how serious you are, if it turns out it was nothing, there's no reason to get your dad involved. But if it becomes more serious you'll have to tell your dad sooner or later. But since you're 14 and he's 18, it's probably not very serious...
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2008-09-08, 10:06 | Link #689 | |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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Eh well, you're not exactly giving away a lot of context here. Why would your dad kill you if he finds out you're going out with your current beau? Is it because the latter really does look like "the bad sort", or is it just daddy being daddy? How come your mom is fine with it? Lastly, how sure are you that daddy doesn't already know? Joking aside, I would personally think that keeping secrets never leads to anything good. Try getting your mom and your beau to sit down together with you and dad over tea or something, and thrash things out nicely. Better than the inevitable leak of the secret which is gonna make daddy blow his top. |
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2008-09-09, 07:59 | Link #693 | |
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: In Maya world, where all is 3D and everything crashes
Age: 36
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onyl problem Ive ever had with guys is morals and standards, I was raised with indonesian standards and most other dutchies don't understand a thing about my livestyle, let alone the things I eat other than that only idiots dare to come up to me and flirt, idiots youd ont want to get involved with.. where ooh where have the good men gone |
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2008-09-09, 08:20 | Link #694 | |
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: New York
Age: 32
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2008-09-09, 15:39 | Link #695 | |
See You En' Tee
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: England
Age: 37
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http://forums.animesuki.com/showthre...?t=44&page=396 go judge for yourself i guess
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2008-09-09, 16:53 | Link #696 | |
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Ok you're hot. But I'm not going to fangirl-drool over you as you have a gf
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Um, not when you're hot & have a british accent just kidding. but really, watching anime and having the guts to post on an anime message board already shows some personality. |
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2008-09-19, 22:04 | Link #699 |
Gregory House
IT Support
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Okay, I normally hate posting this kind of stuff but I'm kinda dumbfounded at the moment so I'll give it a shot:
I've just discovered that the girl I've been flirting with for some days now is not only missing half a brain, but also points the other half towards some sort of strange form of white supremacism/neonazism. She's not exactly a neonazi poster child, but she has these... opinions, you know. Figures something like that would've been hiding in a girl who's the child of a 79-year old German who can't even stand the idea of living in this country and not in the Mutterland. (NOTE: Before you go gung-ho on me, I am not saying Germans are nazis. That particular German guy was born in a very specific context which gives leeway to such speculations). Now, I've dated quite a few not-the-brightest-light-in-the-room girls, but this one beats me. She's given me some very clear signs that she wants to have something with me, and I can't say I don't feel physically attracted to her, but... I believe satisfying my carnal pleasure and dumping her would go against my principles. But there's no way in hell I can carry on a relationship with her--no way. Unless I'm supposed to attempt re-educating her from her... odd path. So, right now I'm struggling against my innermost physical desires and my good-natured do-no-harm self. What do y'all reckon I should do?
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2008-09-20, 00:02 | Link #700 | |
Love Yourself
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Northeast USA
Age: 38
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If you're not held back by morals and if you won't think any less of yourself, then consider going for it under one condition: this girl is a human being. You may want to clear it with her that what would happen would be something for the both of you, but it would not indicate a serious relationship. Many girls tend to view sex differently than guys; it's more an act of intimacy and closeness rather than something purely for pleasure and amusement (not that all guys view it that way - I'm going off of stereotypes and various psychological studies). If this will have potentially really hurt her and/or break her heart, don't do it. Even though the descriptions of her you've used make her seem rather despicable, it wouldn't be justified.
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