2013-01-15, 07:49 | Link #182 |
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Age: 29
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Ahhh... I don't even know where to begin Well, for starters, by & large I am a nice person. But when I'm not... Sometimes I like to say weird and awkward things that make people feel uncomfortable just to see their reactions. I have no idea why, but when that impulse comes I just can't control it. I am competitive, which is a really bad trait.
Someone here said that they blame everything on themselves, for me it's the other way around. I blame everything on others. Well, not verbally, mentally. I rarely think that it's my fault and then I end up hating myself for that later. I worry and think too much, and I voice my thoughts and worries and fears which I imagine annoys people a lot. When I try to make people feel better, I sometimes accidentally make them feel worse Sometimes I don't think when I speak and I'm not very perceptive. I have a hard time admitting that I'm wrong. And I'm too stubborn. I don't have an opinion. When given 2 choices I just can't choose, because *gasp* I think too much. Decisive people, you rock And when I am angry I direct my anger to the people I love most — my family and friends, and they don't deserve that. I also go to 2 different extremes — I'm both too cynical and too naive for my own good. Hmmm... That's probably not even all of it. Sometimes, I'm not a very great person, am I ...
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2013-01-15, 10:08 | Link #183 |
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Age: 40
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Oh dear, this topic .. um. Putting myself under the microscope.. I have a pretty high tolerance threshold for certain things, but admittedly there are certain triggers that'll set me off. Full-blown anger is rare, but I can often get irritated easily and tend to be a tad .. impatient..
But at my absolute worse, I am either: 1) A cruel and spite filled person that has been quoted once exclaiming: "What? Are you an idiot? Are you a f*cking useless waste of space? Are you needlessly consuming oxygen that would be best served nourishing others?" 2) Someone coldly unsympathetic and rational to the point where I would trod roughshod over any and everyone's feelings, sensitivities and weaknesses without batting an eye. #2 more often than #1 though .. I'm usually pleasant enough though I think..
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2013-01-16, 01:17 | Link #188 |
Kaiba
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: David Tennant's bedroom in the TARDIS
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I am downright caustic at my worst.
Ie, I become a total bitch and say everything that's on my mind about that person or thing that made me angry, I get angry and upset, but I say every word with a smile on my face, but laced with bite. And the smile is what really makes it--it's more of a sarcastic, crazy sort of grin.
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2013-01-16, 01:49 | Link #190 |
Ultimate Gambler
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Australia
Age: 30
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People say I'm sarcastic 95% of the time and I don't even know it myself to be honest.
Some people say they love that about me, some say they don't. I'd say it's me at my worst because like I mentioned before I don't even know when I'm being sarcastic. I'm also constantly changing my stance and opinions on things, people say I do that too, but I don't notice I do it myself. I might need to see someone, think I've got multiple personality disorder. |
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Vereinigte Staaten
Age: 31
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2013-12-09, 23:25 | Link #193 |
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tennessee
Age: 36
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I've always considered this to be one of the most interesting threads on AnimeSuki, so time for it to rise from the ashes once again.
Spoiler for A few things about me:
I'm sure there's more that I could say, but I don't want to make the post too long, and I'd rather limit the list of flaws to things that come across as interesting or sympathetic or whatever, things that are basically 'good flaws' or 'acceptable flaws.' I'd kind of be shooting myself in the foot if I posted traits that made people think "Wow, you're a piece of shit." But yeah, this is an interesting thread, so hopefully a few more posters will chime in this time around. Last edited by Dr. Casey; 2013-12-09 at 23:36. |
2013-12-11, 14:06 | Link #198 |
Paraph
Join Date: Oct 2013
Age: 31
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I'm like some other posters here.
- When i hate someone for something they've done, and I want justice, the situation (I) usually blows up in one event. Like a big argument, verbal lashing, to the point my throat is sore. - I ruminate, which is unproductive. If I express rumination most people will try to avoid it as no one likes to hear complaints. If they do 'approve' of my complaints, we're both ruminating. It sucks the life out of everyone. - When I get irritated and can't stand it, there's no way i'd want to give to someone or tolerate a person unless they are calm and understanding. How often are people calm and understanding when they're also obsessed with being heard? So I demand someone to be understanding and yet they are also demanding that from me. An irritating scenario. - When i want someone to pitch in, like clean the bathroom, or just to clean after themselves, I typically make demands or give orders, such as, "clean after yourself." or worse it's a complaint, accusation, and demand "why do i always clean after you? do your dishes!" Most people get defensive, find excuses, and do not hear me out. It quickly turns into an argument, or rather, it was already a fight in the first place. So to sum, at worst i have issues coping with anger and then asserting boundaries to solve what is irritating me. |
2013-12-11, 21:48 | Link #199 |
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Kazamatsuri City
Age: 28
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^Similar to poster above.
I get angry a lot, have trouble backing off from an argument. Can't stand admitting defeat. I am pretty vengeful, and sometimes hold grudges, probably because I'm oversensitive. I tend to make judgments about people a lot, some of which turn out totally wrong. I'm also lazy and like to make excuses for myself. |
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