2010-08-15, 19:14 | Link #6162 | |
My wolfu is >> your waifu
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Charleston, West Virginia
Age: 42
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Granted this is just me, but my job schedule requires me to work ~80 hours a week, but I still have time for love and friends. Once you get a routine, time seems to open up. Also, if time is a priority for you, start looking for a career that interests you and has a favorable workload.
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2010-08-15, 19:20 | Link #6163 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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However, biologically speaking, your body does everything it can to make you attracted to the opposite sex (and make you more attractive to them) because, from an evolutionary standpoint, more sex = more children = better survival of the species as whole, and that's the answer to why such a system exists. I try my best to ignore those urges and remain neutral, but even then it can be quite difficult. Incredibly difficult. In short, it's human instinct to want to have sex, whether you like it or not as the case may be. |
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2010-08-15, 19:25 | Link #6164 | |
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Xanadu
Age: 29
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But then their is also the case that the person is dissapointed because he/she got drunk and just had sex with probably some random stranger, or the person who offered them alcohol |
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2010-08-15, 19:39 | Link #6165 | |
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Also, is it possible to not remember having sex? Maybe if you were really knocked up on alcohol or drugs, or possibly if it was a "sleep sex" scenario... or if it was a traumatizing experience.
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2010-08-15, 19:59 | Link #6166 | |
Where's the monoeye?
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Hargenteen
Age: 35
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No I kid. Seriously though, it is possible, usually the strongest hangover will cause some memory loss. |
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2010-08-15, 21:21 | Link #6168 |
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Xanadu
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Of course I never trusted it at first because I never understood what exactly they were trying to point out. Since the people who direct movies these days from where I live are just mostly wanting to put "Sex/Comedy/Action" with barely any plot which mostly kills the purpose of going to the movie theater anymore for me..
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2010-08-15, 21:22 | Link #6169 | |
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But after that, I really didn't have much of a craving for sex. I still felt like it towards those I came to love, but it was because there was an emotional component. Course, there was the stalker that I screwed around with to mess with her head, haha. |
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2010-08-16, 11:54 | Link #6170 | |
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Beach shores!
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2010-08-16, 12:03 | Link #6171 | |||
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Also, don't lie, every fifteen year old boy thinks about sex constantly. Quote:
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This is why people (especially guys, who can usually only blow their load once before having to wait for the refraction period to end) sometimes fall asleep after sex. And then get whacked in the head with a pillow by their significant other!
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2010-08-16, 13:45 | Link #6175 | |
思想工作
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Vereinigte Staaten
Age: 31
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I also think about violence, war, and killing things constantly, in addition to sex. But I hold myself to a different conscious standard than what random thoughts spew from my subconscious. EDIT: Sorry if this post sounded pretentious. It's complicated but frankly I am quite tired. |
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2010-08-16, 15:20 | Link #6176 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I feel I'm the same way. |
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2010-08-16, 15:29 | Link #6177 |
Shameless Fangirl
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Germany
Age: 33
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I think comparing casual sex to killing someone is problematic (even if it was probably just to illustrate a point), and I don't believe there's anything "cheap" to it, but if it doesn't appeal to you for one reason or another, yeah, that's fine, too.
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2010-08-16, 15:50 | Link #6178 |
blinded by blood
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Agreed. I don't see anything wrong with casual sex as long as you're not stupid about it and catch syphilis or something.
Also I don't know anyone who has the stones to just walk up to a random person and tell them that they want to fuck them. At least not without liberal application of alcohol beforehand.
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2010-08-16, 16:25 | Link #6179 | |
Love Conquers All!
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: The Suzumiya Haruhi Section of AnimeSuki, (I placed my main Otaku HQ box there)
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