2012-06-20, 21:00 | Link #162 | |
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This sounds like me I also have a really bad tendency to push people away when they try to get close. I remember a good friend of mine confided some things to me that he never told anyone else. I ended up pushing one of my best friends away and didn't even realize it till a few days later... after that we pretty much stopped talking and I have not really spoken to him for a year or two now. When ever anyone tries to get close I brush them off like its just a joke and have really hurt people this way. I guess its a self defense mechanism since I have been burned in the worst way possible a few times growing up.
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2012-06-20, 21:04 | Link #163 |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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I think some people have already seen what I can be like when I'm close to being at my worst.
That said, since somebody who doesn't like the things I say has hung a Sword of Damocles above my head, I doubt I'll ever get to do another credibility kill here. Funny how only a certain group of people get to say whatever they feel like, eh? |
2012-06-20, 23:14 | Link #164 | |
NYAAAAHAAANNNNN~
Join Date: Nov 2007
Age: 35
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Then they blame anyone who suggested things to them when disaster strikes, even when the person tried to tell them the limitations about it. People are amazing, aren't they? Though I do find the concept of "modus vivendi" useful in dealing with this kind of people, it pulls everyone onto the equal ground. Sarcasm is a great tool but it makes a hidden person more offensive, as he/she can hide and not show his/her ugly true form, therefore it is best saved for real life in dealing with politicians or snarky consumers dropping by your store; pull off their facade.
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2012-06-23, 04:40 | Link #168 |
The Chaotic Dreamer
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: In a cruel yet beautiful world
Age: 32
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I am ridiculously hypercritical, difficult to impress, can occasionally be VERY set in my ways/it's hard to change my opinion of something if I'm very sure that I'm right (and I'm generally an open-minded person who prefers to remain unbiased if possible), and I have an inferiority complex.
I think that's about it for me, lol.
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2012-06-23, 23:19 | Link #169 | |
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Tennessee
Age: 36
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Genji's a sadist and Kismet has an inferiority complex. Huh. Lots of unexpected personality traits here.
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2012-06-23, 23:55 | Link #171 |
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Artist
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: The Middle Way
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My personality at its worst? Is that for me to decide?
Well okay, the worst anyone has seen from me is when I was a bully in elementary. I know, I know, it's ancient history okay? As far as people haven't seen, I guess they'll find out eventually?
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2013-01-14, 18:45 | Link #172 |
Tenshi Clone 10
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: The Moon
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I'm lazy , too caring too nice.. , too quite , too weird , and when I get too happy I have a problem of hurting myself (Smack my head on something , falling , throwing my arms around and smacking something)
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2013-01-14, 19:41 | Link #173 |
癸亥 (guǐhài)
Graphic Designer
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ
Age: 40
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at my worst, i'll usually isolate myself from others (including people online). i dont
want people to be near me when i'm at my worst because i dont want to say or do something that i'll regret for the rest of my life. after all, i dont want to hurt the ones closer to me. i rather be the one that is hurt and not the ones i love. i also just go outside and take it out on the tree. *punch...kick it as hard as i can until i'm burnt out* ....that usually makes me feel better.
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2013-01-14, 19:57 | Link #174 |
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Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Location?
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I have a superiority complex, and a fear (or dislike) of having close friends.
It's not like I don't like people or don't like friends, but the concept of "close" friends is awkward and alien to me. My superiority complex keeps me from revealing other negative traits about myself.
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2013-01-14, 20:06 | Link #175 |
On a mission
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At my worst, I suppose the best way to summarize it is that I don't want to do anything except enjoy the misery of other people to confirm the world as a terrible place. A sort of self-defeating justification will you.
I also tend to withhold criticism a bit too much when it comes to people, so you might expect a tl;dr about why I really hate you. In other words, I'll most likely find anything bad to say. The most satisfying situation is one where someone is begging for support or approval and you crush it like a tin can. You know sometimes how in college classes someone will vehemently go on about oppression and certain rights? Well, all you have to do is deride their analysis as flawed and (my favorite) would never work given human nature. Or if someone asks "Was I right..." I'll tell them no even if I agree with them, just because I like to see them miserable. Don't come to me about your relationship problems. "Oh, you broke up? Just find another one. It doesn't matter to you anyways who it is, right?" And of course, I also like seeing people I don't like online to implode. It's pretty funny and some people are incredibly easy to control that I have a down to a tee. Rest assured, AS has made me into a better person... usually.
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2013-01-14, 20:39 | Link #176 |
Obey the Darkly Cute ...
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: On the whole, I'd rather be in Kyoto ...
Age: 66
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I'm pretty mellow and it takes quite a bit to get me angry and keep me angry. That said, I can get grumpy if I'm tired out of my mind or my blood sugar is diving from irregular eating habits. Mostly, if you've gotten me angry - you did something really deeply stupid or uncool to achieve it.
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2013-01-15, 05:38 | Link #177 |
Some Random Guy
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Australia
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I'm usually a kind, friendly easy to get along with kind of person(well would like to believe so) usually takes a lot for me to get annoyed. But when I get annoyed or angered I'm very unpleasant(usually happens at work when dealing with customers that blame everything on me and not their own), but I guess that can be everyone under the same circumstances.
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2013-01-15, 06:01 | Link #178 |
The Interstellar Medium
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: [SWE]
Age: 34
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When annoyed about people being happy and generally successful, especially on FB, I can become a nihilistic passive-aggressive sarcastic arse... in private. Similar if someone annoys me for a long time (idiots online, drunk friends, etc.) as I simply stop taking the bull and "counter-attack". I'm very much a passive, quiet person that gets along with almost anyone since I don't want to offend... which means I let it boil inside until it explodes so that's not so good.
It's been this way since early childhood and, ironically, I sometimes get respect from others for exploding, lol :x
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2013-01-15, 06:06 | Link #179 |
The old ace of Arlington
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Plain of Doleful Melody - ANI
Age: 36
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IRL, I never believe into what we called "the goodness of people": A beggar - just a lazy hobo, Rich people doing charity - They're just doing PR for their business or buying some fame for themselves and there's no real friendship - just people helping each other so that they can advance their own goal.
Sometimes ago, I realized that I have turned into a cynical person but I can't do anything about it. Probably because I haven't seen anything good that can actually change me.
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2013-01-15, 06:44 | Link #180 | |
Still Alive
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Somewhere far far away
Age: 30
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I want to see this personality in a character.......Oh wait, there is one, ZE JOKER I think I was at my worst when I was being this passive guy of my group, through the Middle School to High School, who just watched and enjoyed a transfer student getting bullied. The good thing is, he became one of the group and the childish bullying stopped or at least was done in jest.
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