I normally use "dude" or "guys" even when Im referring to girls, mostly since most of my rl and even online friends are guys. I dont really consider either gender specific I guess, also since "dude" is kinda becoming a word by itself
Yeah Im normally not referred to in the female sense XD
@GTO: Fighting drunken Scots, eh? And yes the beer does get watered down, which is why I prefer Vodka