What type of woman/man you want to be with ?

[dot_rain]

Originally Posted by Zoro

hahaha this thread is funny, has all these interesting ppl everywhere too.
Actually i have this "perfect" grl in my mind, but no way im gonna find anyone that fits the description right. im a writer (not pro since im still in high school) so therefore i think a lot about random things.

i think the type of grl id like would be someone like Narusegawa Naru, looks,body, personality, etc, call me crazy but i wouldnt mind being hit all the time, thats cuz im korean, and we are beaten everyday by the women of our country. Id prefer krn mostly because psychologically ppl are attracted to their own race, and id probably be disowned if i married any other race. (haha overexaggeration)

Dont ask me why, but it would be really cool if she was an archer. (hahaha)
virgin?? sure, the cleaner the better i think hahaha especially because i havent ventured out too far myself. the last gf i had was the first time i kissed anyone, and pretty much the same for her, and its awkward cuz neither of us know wat to do, but it all works out nicely.

someone who can kinda tolerate my dullness, ADD, anime, sarcasm.
head shorter would be nice, u know? as in her head is up to my shoulder.
age doesnt matter, ive dated one who was 1 yr and 1/2 younger the other was a yr older.

her being presbyterian would be nice, than i dont have to get into religious arguments, my dads a pastor.

According to my "Girl list 2003" (it is updated every year) , I hate to say this , but ..... there is just one like that , is the pig of my neighbor ^_^

[naoko]

my girlfriend's pretty ideal. she's pretty & healthy & tolerates my complete lack of organization, short attention span, and lack of academic motivation (she says she sympathizes with me on this). also, whenever she sleeps at my house, she always falls asleep way earlier than I do, so I have lots of time to play video games.

[Sukato]

Hmm... for women I guess I would look for someone who has a lot of confidence in everything (I love confidence), ambition, and very creative intelligence. Beauty doesn't seem very appealing to me when it comes to women anyway.

For guys its almost the opposite. I only like guys that are hot/sexy, slightly muscular (doesn't need to be massive, but at least a little athletic), and a very simple personality. I also have a strange attraction to guys that have soft skin...

As for preference between the two, non-existant. I am pretty much balanced on the scale.

[michael_cho_my]

i would like to be with a timid girl. Those weak and fragile looking ones. And I'll the her MAN!
just a fantasy though. Not a criterion for a wife as well.

[krel]

Originally Posted by dot_rain

hey guess what , that's ........... me ^o^

AISHITERU !!!



edit: you're not kidding me are you???

[dot_rain]

unfortunatelly , I'm a dam straight guy ^o^

[Tzurial]

Originally Posted by Sukato

Hmm... for women I guess I would look for someone who has a lot of confidence in everything (I love confidence), ambition, and very creative intelligence. Beauty doesn't seem very appealing to me when it comes to women anyway.

For guys its almost the opposite. I only like guys that are hot/sexy, slightly muscular (doesn't need to be massive, but at least a little athletic), and a very simple personality. I also have a strange attraction to guys that have soft skin...

As for preference between the two, non-existant. I am pretty much balanced on the scale.

Looks like theres a preference to me. With girls you want a relationship and with guys you want sex

[ReneaAener]

My type of woman or maybe a man(anything can happen)........going to make this short .........Someone with brains and beauty......who's hilarious....spontaneous(most important)..........Just someone who can keep up with me.

[gravitation]

I dont like it when guys are too muscley, i think its kinda disgusting lol soz, and sometimes i think hhmm i wonder whether he would squash me in bed....o yeah i remember in this japanese film i saw once this sumo guy suffocated his g/f (ppl sung alot in it aswell and it was about this family that had a cursed house or summin) but i guess thats kinda off topic...lol soz....I wouldnt mind a guy who is smart and gentle...friendly and likes to listen...attractive...brave...i want him to be top (semi)...someone who wouldnt mind me holding his arm etc...ermm lol i know ive been describing a fantasy thing but still its nice having fantasies ^_^

[Mr. Bushido]

Originally Posted by gravitation

I dont like it when guys are too muscley, i think its kinda disgusting lol soz, and sometimes i think hhmm i wonder whether he would squash me in bed....o yeah i remember in this japanese film i saw once this sumo guy suffocated his g/f (ppl sung alot in it aswell and it was about this family that had a cursed house or summin) but i guess thats kinda off topic...lol soz....I wouldnt mind a guy who is smart and gentle...friendly and likes to listen...attractive...brave...i want him to be top (semi)...someone who wouldnt mind me holding his arm etc...ermm lol i know ive been describing a fantasy thing but still its nice having fantasies ^_^

tats how we live thru the harshness of life. haha we all have our "dream" hell i daze off so much i have like 5 anime series written by dreaming and day dreaming. Now only if i can draw....

[PiGGiEE]

Hmmm... I need someone that can beat me in video games hehehehe

Well... actually I'm married... for those that are not... don't marry so young please... wait till you're 30 or wait 40-50 is perfect... there's no need to rush.

I met my hubby online about 6 years ago. We met in Westwood Chat (Red Alert)... it was the weirdest because it was the first chat experience (I didn't have a computer...used the school's). And he was the first person I talked to... We eventually wrote letters and started talking on the phone... about 9 months later... I decided to go visit... Visted him and everything went well so I decided to pack up and move here to be with him. Crazy? Yes.. but it was one of those things where I felt it in my gut that it was the right thing to do... and I don't get those feelings too often...so I just went with it. He proposed to me on my birthday that same year... we got married last year in August.

I wanted to be with him because we trust each other.. there is 110% trust between us. I never worry about what he does, where he goes or who he talks to when he's out...and vice versa. We talk about everything... we're pretty much like best friends more than anything. Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Love and Communication are the key factors in our relationship. I think another reason is because he can actually keep up with me playing video games hehehe and a few times have kicked my a$$ so I'm loving it cuz I need the challenge. We have alot in common and we do everything together. From gaming, anime, movies, music, and everything else. I even check out girls with him at the bars and clubs... I think most important is that he can be himself around me the same way he is with his friends. I hang out with alot of guys and realized that 90% of them act differently in front of their girlfriends and it makes me sad that they can't be themselves... and because of that... sometimes they need to make up lies/excuses and when they are found out... always ends in a bad relationship. What I wanted was to find someone that I can be myself with... had similar interests... was honest and loyal (too many cheaters now a days)... Took a few really traumatic bad relationships to find him but it was worth it.

[PiGGiEE]

Originally Posted by gravitation

I dont like it when guys are too muscley, i think its kinda disgusting lol soz, and sometimes i think hhmm i wonder whether he would squash me in bed....o yeah i remember in this japanese film i saw once this sumo guy suffocated his g/f (ppl sung alot in it aswell and it was about this family that had a cursed house or summin) but i guess thats kinda off topic...lol soz....I wouldnt mind a guy who is smart and gentle...friendly and likes to listen...attractive...brave...i want him to be top (semi)...someone who wouldnt mind me holding his arm etc...ermm lol i know ive been describing a fantasy thing but still its nice having fantasies ^_^

I think you would love it in NYC... I've lived there all my life and woohoo! There are tons of hot hot guys walking around with your description... in Manhattan. Sniffles... I remember when I tried asking one out.. he told me he already had a boyfriend Ouch!

[Cammie]

Originally Posted by PiGGiEE

Hmmm... I need someone that can beat me in video games hehehehe

Well... actually I'm married... for those that are not... don't marry so young please... wait till you're 30 or wait 40-50 is perfect... there's no need to rush.

I met my hubby online about 6 years ago. We met in Westwood Chat (Red Alert)... it was the weirdest because it was the first chat experience (I didn't have a computer...used the school's). And he was the first person I talked to... We eventually wrote letters and started talking on the phone... about 9 months later... I decided to go visit... Visted him and everything went well so I decided to pack up and move here to be with him. Crazy? Yes.. but it was one of those things where I felt it in my gut that it was the right thing to do... and I don't get those feelings too often...so I just went with it. He proposed to me on my birthday that same year... we got married last year in August.

I wanted to be with him because we trust each other.. there is 110% trust between us. I never worry about what he does, where he goes or who he talks to when he's out...and vice versa. We talk about everything... we're pretty much like best friends more than anything. Trust, Honesty, Loyalty, Love and Communication are the key factors in our relationship. I think another reason is because he can actually keep up with me playing video games hehehe and a few times have kicked my a$$ so I'm loving it cuz I need the challenge. We have alot in common and we do everything together. From gaming, anime, movies, music, and everything else. I even check out girls with him at the bars and clubs... I think most important is that he can be himself around me the same way he is with his friends. I hang out with alot of guys and realized that 90% of them act differently in front of their girlfriends and it makes me sad that they can't be themselves... and because of that... sometimes they need to make up lies/excuses and when they are found out... always ends in a bad relationship. What I wanted was to find someone that I can be myself with... had similar interests... was honest and loyal (too many cheaters now a days)... Took a few really traumatic bad relationships to find him but it was worth it.

I wish you the best!!! I hope someday I'll find someone like that!

[gravitation]

@ piggie: woah thats crazy but kool

I remember when I tried asking one out.. he told me he already had a boyfriend Ouch!

awww^_~

I think you would love it in NYC... I've lived there all my life and woohoo! There are tons of hot hot guys walking around with your description... in Manhattan.

REALLY! wow i must visit there someday!! ehheehe o wait what better time than the present i shall go now *packs and gets the quickest flight to NYC* aww i wish guys were like that over here but not many ppl are open about whether they are gay at my age, i wouldnt mind going out with someone older than me but im way too shy ^_^

[krel]

Originally Posted by dot_rain

unfortunatelly , I'm a dam straight guy ^o^

aarrgghh...hidoi!!! you tricked me!!!

[Sakura-chan]

Krel, don't cry. Don't cry, nee? Onegai, nee? Or I will be sad too...

[krel]

Originally Posted by Sakura-chan

Krel, don't cry. Don't cry, nee? Onegai, nee? Or I will be sad too...

don't worry, i'm fine. dot_rain is a jerk though.

[Hoshisama]

enjoy reading(esp. manga), watching anime , able to cook(since i cant do so well :P), taller than me (like at least 5"9 plus), have to be smarter than me :P and caring. tats about it.

oh... p.s he have to play PS2 games

p.p.s love sushi and italian food an A plus (and chinese food too plz)

em.... p.p.p.s Love me


haha....

[gravitation]

taller than me

OMG thats so kool, my dream guy has to be taller than me!! i want that so i can do the whole resting on the chest and holding of the arm^_^

[dot_rain]

Originally Posted by Hoshisama

enjoy reading(esp. manga), watching anime , able to cook(since i cant do so well :P), taller than me (like at least 5"9 plus), have to be smarter than me :P and caring. tats about it.

oh... p.s he have to play PS2 games

p.p.s love sushi and italian food an A plus (and chinese food too plz)

em.... p.p.p.s Love me


haha....

I have all those and still ...... still ..... v..i..r...g...i...n.... , but .... me not that tall