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Because while some girls would laugh, there are girls who would see that Quote:
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I also wonder what kind of girls he tried to pick up, because men are not the only ones who can success in gathering informations. And over here, I know there are men who see no problems in lying and trying hard to hide their dirty secrets And finally, I guess he's lucky to not have successed in fooling a girl like me, because to put it bluntly without any joke, he would not have been able to have sex again, ever. Quote:
About the drunk girls, that's why I don't go to clubs or to parties. I won't drink, but cases when people put drugs in your water and orange juice happens (i won't say it happens a lot, I can't do statistics, but as often as being widely know that it can happen in parties and clubs) Quote:
Since then, I am more blunt. Last edited by Narona; 2009-09-14 at 19:21. |
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2009-09-14, 19:05 | Link #1583 | |
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If he is or seems to be a good person, of course I will not try to embarass him. What i mean is that I avoid to create any possible misunderstanding. No "maybe" and such. And without talking a lot. Short (not too short as a single word) and precise answer is the best imo. Last edited by Narona; 2009-09-14 at 19:19. |
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2009-09-14, 21:42 | Link #1585 | |
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Join Date: Mar 2003
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Well, I wasn't stammering and blushing or anything. I basically said "there's something I wanted to ask you," took a big breath, and then said "first, are you currently single?" (more or less with that precision, and being 99% certain that she was actually single). As I said, she smiled a really big smile, asked if I was asking her out, and that was it. I don't remember exactly how she viewed me at that time - I think she was just relieved that I was asking her out. I was her first boyfriend, you see. Actually, I guess I'll be her only boyfriend, given that we're getting married
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2009-09-14, 21:50 | Link #1586 | |
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2009-09-14, 21:57 | Link #1587 | |
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It was really cute haha |
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2009-09-14, 22:12 | Link #1588 | |
Love Yourself
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It wasn't an approach I'd really thought to use. However, the night before I'd resolved to ask her out (I saw it as my last chance to ask her), I had a nightmare wherein she'd introduced me to her boyfriend. It was a terrible nightmare, given the timing, and I jolted awake very confused and depressed. So perhaps partly as a result, I was very cautious...
(On the other hand, she told me that she'd had a dream where we both fell asleep on a really comfortable bed together, and it was a dream that left her waking up very happy. I much preferred her dream. It is interesting to note that we were dreaming of each other on the same night.) Quote:
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2009-09-16, 07:46 | Link #1590 | |
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Anyways, cute I wonder if it's more uncommon in the US than here XD |
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2009-09-16, 08:03 | Link #1591 | |
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On a more serious note, with the opinion of different regions having different women, I object. |
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2009-09-16, 08:24 | Link #1592 | |
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Girls don't usually put themselves in positions like that. Which is part of the reason why a girl getting rejected before the relationship has begun is virtually unheard of. That said, most girls will help a guy out with hints and clues, sometimes to the point where the question is begging to be asked and the answer is certain to be yes. |
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2009-09-16, 09:11 | Link #1593 | |
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2009-09-16, 11:44 | Link #1594 |
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: England
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My friend thinks one of my teachers who i have a thing for has a thing for me...
E.g Yesterday: Him: You know if your sat alone for lunch i'd be happy to sit with you everyday. Me: Really? Him: Yes, come to my office at 1:05 and we'll walk down together. Me: Thanks, it's a date then, *i laughed jokingly* Him: *winks and licks his lips at me* And the other day: Me: Morning sir! Him: Morning, how're you? Me: Fine thanks you? Him: I'm fine, a little pissed off but i'm fine. Me: Why what's up? Him: All this paper work and marking has been driving me crazy and to be honest you're the only thing I come to school for. Me: ... *blush* Him: *puts arm around me* See ya later. Me: Bye.. I was like o_O he is so hott and I am just fail!! Is he trying to wind me up?
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2009-09-16, 13:08 | Link #1595 |
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You have to stop whatever your doing right now because not only will it get you and him into a whole heap of trouble you will regret it.
Ignoring the fact that your underage and he's at the very least 8 years older than you (assuming he's 23 which would be pretty young for a teacher), your under his care and doing anything will be regarded as abusing his position. It will destroy his career and you'll probably get hurt to. Your 15 years old, thats a crazy time your hormones are going wild, its not un common for people of your age to have crushes on teachers but its usually just a passing thing. He shouldnt be saying things like that at all or doing things like that, stay away from him. |
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2009-09-16, 14:05 | Link #1597 |
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Heed stubby42's and H23's advice. The teacher shouldn't say anything like that and you shouldn't do things with him.
People WILL find out and his career will be ruined. Here in the US, there have been cases of teachers engaging in inappropriate behavior with a student or two and it's always a bad end for the teacher. The teacher is supposed to teach and set an example for children, not seduce them.
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2009-09-16, 14:40 | Link #1598 |
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I just had a recent breakup. We were pretty good friends before we started going out.
Before we started going out, she needed a place to move into, so I offered since my friend and I were in need of a new roomate. She was more than happy to move in with us. She had a boyfriend at the time so I really didn't think much of it, I did find her attractive and liked her personality, but that was all. Then two months later, she had broke up with him and got close to me. I was starting to fall in love with her every moment we were together. Had many of my firsts...*cough* and eventually started officially going out. 3 days later she said she can't do it. I felt used. She had recently broken up with her boyfriend and moved onto me, but didn't want to go out or anything. Like she needed someone there, anyone to be close with, didnt matter who. I just happen to be there since I was living with her. It's been two weeks now and I'm having the worst experience ever. Things have not been the same since the break up, its just awkward and I just hate how quickly everything changed. Since we are living together it's been hard to get over her. So as of now Im on a trip of "self preservation" or whatever. Been driving around, staying in hotels, friends houses n such. Havent been home for awhile. It's ok, I'm not sure it'll fix the problem, but I felt like I needed to do something out of the ordinary, something I would never do. I just "hate" her right now, when I know I shouldn't. I can't help it. Hopefully it'll all work out for the both of us. She's a great person and I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I can't stand being around her. Just something to throw out there to you guys since Im bored in this hotel room.
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She made the first moves, I wanted it, but I also knew it was a bad idea. That's life for ya.
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