Dating

[Knightrunner]

Wow, driving you to the other campus that's a big step. Maybe if you go to the next meeting there will be more cues or hints to make your decision.

[GDB]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

He's a total sweetheart, never dated before, and he's got a great sense of humor.

This, combined with what else you said, leads me to believe that he probably does have a crush of some sort on you. He clearly wants to get on your good side, but due to his lack of experience he isn't sure what to do without going "too far".

One thing I could suggest looking for next time is whether he smiles when talking to you (not telling jokes or anything, just during normal conversation). This could possibly be a sign that he enjoys your company. Though it could just be he enjoys talking to others who share similar interests, leading to this next thing to look for. How much time does he spend talking to you compared to others in the club?

If he does like you, given that he's never dated before, you'll have to decide if you want to pursue anything. Odds are that he won't ask you out without feeling like he got some signal that you're interested in him. So, if you decide to pursue it, you can start doing small things to let him know you're interested to give him the courage to ask you out (or, you know, just ask him out. Provided he likes you, it'd likely thrill him beyond belief that he didn't have to take the initial leap). If you don't, just slip in casual comments that show you aren't interested in dating, even if it's just stuff like being "insanely busy" or whatever.

[Last Sinner]

Well good. I'm almost 30 and when I can afford one comfortably, I'm getting one.

[cheyannew]

Originally Posted by Last Sinner

Well good. I'm almost 30 and when I can afford one comfortably, I'm getting one.

Best of luck finding a good Dr, then; it's a pain
That being said, once you FIND said Dr, he (or she) may be able to finagle things with your medical insurance (if you have any) to help with the costs.

If you have a family history of medical issues/mental issues, you might be able to say "Well, uhm, hey I don't want to spread these! yeah.. that's it.." and they may opt to pay for it as a medical thing rather than personal preference.

[Last Sinner]

Does having only one left to snip also reduce the cost?

[Knightrunner]

Originally Posted by Last Sinner

Well good. I'm almost 30 and when I can afford one comfortably, I'm getting one.

I'm wondering if I should scare you guys into not getting one.

Originally Posted by Last Sinner

Does having only one left to snip also reduce the cost?

I doubt it because they still will have to use the same amount of medication and time put to the one left to snip.

[RadiantBeam]

Brief update:

I attended the anime club meeting last night and met up with the boy I mentioned in my last post, but I didn't really get any clear signs that he might see me as more than a friend. Mostly the only thing he did was sit next to me, which we do all the time anyway. Now I'm wondering if maybe I just looked too much into it, or if he wasn't feeling particularly confident that night. In any case, it seems I might have looked a little too deeply into the situation, but I'll see what happens.

Also HOLY CRAP, Google Chrome is so shiny.

[GN0010 Nosferatu]

From your previous descriptions of this boy, ya seem to be fond of him. It's not all that bad to make a move yourself ya know.

[RadiantBeam]

Originally Posted by GN0010 Nosferatu

From your previous descriptions of this boy, ya seem to be fond of him. It's not all that bad to make a move yourself ya know.

As I mentioned in my last post, I'm in no rush to enter another relationship, or try to pursue one. I'd rather enjoy being single for a little while longer, to be perfectly honest.

[GN0010 Nosferatu]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

As I mentioned in my last post, I'm in no rush to enter another relationship, or try to pursue one. I'd rather enjoy being single for a little while longer, to be perfectly honest.

Well, are you still gonna kidnap him? You can do that, right?

[Knightrunner]

Originally Posted by RadiantBeam

As I mentioned in my last post, I'm in no rush to enter another relationship, or try to pursue one. I'd rather enjoy being single for a little while longer, to be perfectly honest.

Then I would leave things be

[zebra]

You know what's interesting? To hear what impression you give to others.

In short: I was out with one of my friends and we had a blast. We later continued that on the dance floor and noticed a pair of guys next to us. They later told us that they were watching us for a while, but didn't have the guts to do anything about it. They claimed to have had this exchange:
"See those two behind you? They're something."
"... forget it they live in their own world."

I know we're close and having alot of fun all by ourselves already, but I wouldn't have guessed we give an aura of "happy without you"

But wth, I'm back! Bye bye men hating phase

[Kafriel]

But wth, I'm back! Bye bye men hating phase

inb4theotherguys!

"See those two behind you? They're something."
"... forget it they live in their own world."

That's the last thing I'd expect to hear out of anyone...not that I don't live in my own world, but in a different kind of way

[Ricky Controversy]

Originally Posted by zebra

In short: I was out with one of my friends and we had a blast. We later continued that on the dance floor and noticed a pair of guys next to us. They later told us that they were watching us for a while, but didn't have the guts to do anything about it. They claimed to have had this exchange:
"See those two behind you? They're something."
"... forget it they live in their own world."

They must know that you're from Planet Zebes, Zebes. Those gentlemen were actually quite astute.

But wth, I'm back! Bye bye men hating phase

Yes, the next stage is the humanity-hating phase. Welcome to misanthropy! Yaaaay~

Wait...

[Ascaloth]

Originally Posted by zebra

But wth, I'm back! Bye bye men hating phase

Cool! So about that dinner....

[Tsuyoshi]

Originally Posted by zebra

You know what's interesting? To hear what impression you give to others.

In short: I was out with one of my friends and we had a blast. We later continued that on the dance floor and noticed a pair of guys next to us. They later told us that they were watching us for a while, but didn't have the guts to do anything about it. They claimed to have had this exchange:
"See those two behind you? They're something."
"... forget it they live in their own world."

I know we're close and having alot of fun all by ourselves already, but I wouldn't have guessed we give an aura of "happy without you"

But wth, I'm back! Bye bye men hating phase

Lol alright then. So I'm sending some romance your way now, hoping it would get slashed and diced like it did last time

That must've been rather funny You'll find that a lot of guys actually think like that when they see two or more girls having fun together.

[synaesthetic]

My girlfriend and I usually get other, rather less-pleasant reactions from guys when we're out having fun together... *facepalm*

The next creepy pervert old enough to be my father that makes a lewd gesture, pops a tent in his pants or wolf-whistles at me and my girlfriend is totally going to get his balls crushed under my heel.

[Ricky Controversy]

Originally Posted by synaesthetic

The next creepy pervert old enough to be my father that makes a lewd gesture, pops a tent in his pants or wolf-whistles at me and my girlfriend is totally going to get his balls crushed under my heel.

It's a good thing I'm not particularly fond of camping, because that image would have ruined it for me. Your choice of language is always the best, Syn.

[synaesthetic]

I make the English language my bitch.

[Knightrunner]

You guys should make short stories of your thoughts and encounters.