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2009-10-22, 06:36 | Link #402 | |
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Interestingly we see the archetypes for all forms of modern eroticism including those popularized in anime/manga today present without any taboo more than a millennium ago right up to the late 19th century. Even the most important Japanese classic, Genji Monogatari written in 1021 by Lady Murasaki, targeting women, contained scenes of homo- and bi-sexuality. Perhaps the earliest instance of fujoshi? |
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2009-10-22, 07:01 | Link #403 | |
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2009-10-22, 07:17 | Link #404 | |
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夫妻如衣服, 兄弟如手足 - The relationship between husband and wife is like clothing, whereas the relationship between brothers is like a limb. Clothes are easier repaired than a broken limb. Often people see it as gay relationship, but actually it is just a friendship that is strong as kinship. Regardless of what ship it is, perceptions will differ from one two another. So it is pretty much a nice boat on that.
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2009-10-22, 07:33 | Link #405 |
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I really dont think masculinity is lost with a queer culture . History's bravest warriors encouraged and practiced same sex relationships
* Samurais encouraged and practiced homosexuality . The practice was called Shudo (wakashudo) . Shudo (wakushudo) * Spartans were bisexual, there coming of age ceremonies encourages same sex unions for girls and boys .Even there marriage ritual bride had to pretend to be male act male for a good month until she could act her original gender Spartan Pederasty
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2009-10-22, 08:33 | Link #406 |
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Actually, I can see where Autumn Demon is coming from.
A sexual orientation is (usually) not something you choose - it's nothing you can be praised or reprimanded for. I have never understood how people can be proud of something that is pretty much coincidence, like their heritage. I'm not proud to be asexual. I'm proud to be me, and my asexuality is simply one of the many things that shaped me into the person I am today. But on the other hand, I won't tell people what they can or can't feel proud of. As long as they don't go around killing each other over it or thinking they are inherently better than others, that's fine with me. Feeling proud is good, and the object of pride is up to the individual. I mean, even me being me could be considered pure coincidence. xD
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2009-10-22, 09:43 | Link #407 |
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It's a wonderful feeling to be proud of your achievements especially those which you've always believed you were incapable of doing. To be proud of one's self is an okay thing but just don't go too overboard otherwise people might misinterpret that you're bragging or you're conceited.
My stand on the gay parade thing is that I'm fine with gay/lesbians marching around being proud of themselves. I just see it as any other kind of parade where people hold a celebration for whatever they wanna celebrate. I've never held anything against homosexuals just against their agenda.
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2009-10-22, 11:23 | Link #408 |
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What Autumn Demon said is the same thing I was basically trying to say. There are no reason for gay pride parades the way they're held. The direction is misguided. If the LGBT community wants to emulate the civil rights movement of the fifties and sixties, they need to go about it differently.
If you're fighting for civil rights (which I think most of the LGBT community would agree is true) then you should take it more seriously, I think. You should definitely not chance violating local obscenity laws. *wince* As the internets would say: UR DOING IT RONG. And besides, these days it's okay to be proud of everything and anything, except being American. =(
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2009-10-22, 11:28 | Link #409 |
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I might be misinformed/underinformed but I also get the feeling the gay community lacks the strong leadership that propelled the civil rights movement of the sixties. From strong leadership there is more organization and uniform, synchronized efforts (with a decidedly more serious or focused tone, as gay pride parades seem vaguely civil-rights related, but not enough).
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Marriage has always been between a man and a woman. Why change it? It's a word. Its meaning is not right or wrong. Marriage has a feeling of tradition behind it. Gay marriage is totally out of the box. Therefore I don't want to give them that tradition. We will give you another word. And 100 years from now, that word may feel just as nice as "marriage." Build that tradition by yourself. Quote:
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As I said, the nature of homo in animals that article gave is that they have sexual contact with the same sex. But the real problem is not to have sex with the same sex or not, but to refuse to have sex with the opposite sex. What they gave is more like: animal becomes bi when they can't find an opposite sex partner. |
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Actually... no.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions If it was all about the name, than the ancient Romans never married, because obviously, they had another word for it. But we say thay married - and since those unions weren't always between a man and a woman, it follows that there also were same-sex marriages. Quote:
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Because if people say "homosexual" animals, I tend to take them literally.
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2009-10-22, 11:57 | Link #412 | |
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2009-10-22, 12:03 | Link #413 | |
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On the opposing side, the conservative religious anti-gay movement has incredible organization and very strong leadership. That's how Prop. 8 was passed in California. The LGBT community just couldn't keep up with the religious right's well-executed counterattack.
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2009-10-22, 13:02 | Link #414 |
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The vast majority of people in this discussion support same-sex marriage, so here's another question:
Is it better for same-sex marriage to be legalized through the courts or through legislatures? Both have their pros and cons. The judicial branch of government is years ahead of public opinion when it comes to equality issues, and stands to be the quickest path to legalizing gay marriage in all of America. Indeed, Massachusetts became the first state to recognize same-sex marriage due to an order from the state's Supreme Court. But if change comes through the courts then there will be accusations of judicial activism undermining democracy, as has happened in Iowa. Legalization of gay marriage through the legislative branch, as has been done in Vermont, New Hampshire, and Maine, gives the sense of popular support and is much less controversial. But legislative action may not be a realistic hope outside the Northeast. Quite the opposite, most states (30) have constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage. I doubt even a generation will be long enough to change the majority opinion in some Southern states. Unfortunately, a generation is about what it takes for the composition of the US Supreme Court to change. The Court of three justices ago declined to even hear Defense of Marriage Act challenges. |
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Considering the purpose of Gay movement, I would say let it be done through legislatures. Only when the majority agrees to same-sex marriage, can the gay be said to have achieved victory. Anything so controversial be done through the court is ultimately very unstable, and it will become more of a political play than a civil right movement. The original purpose will be lost.
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Further, it's possible homosexuality isn't a genetic thing at all. There's a theory that it's caused by a hormone imbalance in the mother during pregnency. Too much estrogen for a boy and he's gay, too much testosterone for a girl and she's gay. It could very well be that there's no "gay gene" at all. more research needs to be done to figure out exactly what causes homosexuality. Quote:
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Just admit it. Our specie is better off if no one is homo. But some out there are indeed homo, so we as an intelligent and humane specie accept them. |
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