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2010-03-30, 11:49 | Link #4022 | |
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None. Seriously. This place blows. And she's not into video gaming or anime or anything like that. In other words, exact opposite of me. In a Venn diagram, the overlapping region probably would include "international culture" and, uhhm, "languages" and... Well I think that's it. Guhh... |
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2010-03-30, 12:10 | Link #4023 | |
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Let me post a few sites with decent information: http://dating.lovetoknow.com/Free_Date_Ideas http://www.betterbudgeting.com/artic...rugaldates.htm http://www.ecosalon.com/the-economy-...ee-date-ideas/ http://www.coolestdates.com/ Look 'em over, and you can probably get some good ideas. =) |
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2010-03-30, 12:13 | Link #4024 | ||||||
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From my observation, they are generally, IRL, high maintenance, impatient, foul-tempered, show opposite facial expressions to their real feelings and are more overt in their reactions, rarely sarcastic. Minus off the last point and you get a bitch. Quote:
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I have no idea what she sees in a loser like me though. Maybe she is emotionally insecure and desperate? Wish I knew.
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2010-03-30, 12:46 | Link #4025 | |
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2010-03-30, 13:11 | Link #4026 | |
Pretentious moe scholar
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Age: 37
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I guess some people probably also see it as a challenge. Of course, tsunderes are not the only kind of girl that can be challenging... and while "wow, I got her to talk to me loud enough for me to make out what she's saying" probably invokes similar feelings of accomplishment to "wow, I got her to talk to me without jabbing my ribs with a kendo stick", the price of failure is much lower for shy girls than tsunderes. I don't know, appeal of living dangerously, maybe?
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2010-03-30, 15:46 | Link #4027 | |
He Without a Title
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: The land of tempura
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Taxis aren't quite Mass Transportation. Buses, trains, subways, ELs, etc. are. I'm guessing you're one some small town that doesn't have such things? If so bicycles are a nice alternative.
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Anyway let me get into my douchebag shoes for a moment: if she's a foreign exchange student you could probably go for a short fling :P
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2010-03-30, 16:07 | Link #4028 | ||
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Not gonna do a short fling... |
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2010-03-30, 18:59 | Link #4034 | |
I don't give a damn, dude
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In Despair
Age: 37
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Wow, that is pretty unreasonable. I'm not even sure what the game here is anymore. Did you put it to her in an easily misunderstood way? Or does she simply not believe what you say? Maybe she wants you to hook up with the imouto? |
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2010-03-30, 23:31 | Link #4036 | |
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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That would be awkward...
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Anyway this is all presuming that something actually leads me to asking her (my vote is: insanity) and then her somehow actually saying yes (a second vote to: insanity) which I don't think is a high chance. Granted she did call me oppa... Guhhhhh I'm going to try to sleep and forget about this. |
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2010-03-30, 23:34 | Link #4037 | |||||
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But nah. That sounds too wrong. I will just take the older one if she permits. Quote:
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2010-03-30, 23:41 | Link #4038 |
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Well, RB... I did it. I told her everything and it looks like I'm going to be hated.
Isn't this the way it usually works? You get hated whenever you do the right thing, the hard thing. I could have kept doing the easy thing, kept sublimating my dissatisfaction, continuing to try and change her into someone she's not. But I didn't and I chose to come out with it. I feel awful, but I couldn't keep forcing her to be someone she's not. I couldn't keep forcing her to fit the kind of girl I want to be with. I just had to stop trying to put the square peg in the round hole, and now I'm being hated for it. Sigh. I sometimes wonder if this is my fate. Is there really anyone out there for me, or am I just doomed to be alone forever? Or am I just being a petulant little bitch, complaining about things that don't matter, throwing away something good over something stupid?
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2010-03-31, 00:49 | Link #4039 | |
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Athens (GMT+2)
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^ Better to feel bad about it now than regret it in 30 years.
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v yeah, it's more the kind of self-pitying question that makes them go "aww" -_^ Last edited by Kafriel; 2010-03-31 at 04:17. |
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