2011-05-09, 16:17 | Link #8730 |
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In my opinion the food comes first, during the nice dinner out (or home-cooked) and the sex comes after. Bad things can happen when you put sugar and vagina in close proximity... namely, yeast infections. And that's so not sexy.
The food and the booze is to get the mood started. It should stay out of the bedroom and off the naked bodies. Besides, what a hell of a mess to clean up that would be! Ideas like this should stay in cheap porno flicks, as they rarely work out well in reality. I seem to recall a very unpleasant experience with candle wax... epic fail, indeed. These things sound sexier than they actually are in practice.
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2011-05-09, 16:28 | Link #8731 | |
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2011-05-09, 17:02 | Link #8732 | |
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Athens (GMT+2)
Age: 35
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Wouldn't fruit and sweets leave you all sticky btw? |
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2011-05-09, 17:42 | Link #8733 |
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Not really. Wipes up with a small towel pretty easily. Sticky food and such would require new sheets plus showers for each of us!
Plus it's just corny/stupid/cheesy/pointless/etc. Both of us have pretty like minds when it comes to sex--neither of us beat around the bush and we both like to get to the good part! Hours-long foreplay and porno-style sensual acts would just be boring/annoying/make us impatient.
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2011-05-09, 19:50 | Link #8737 |
Frandle & Nightbag
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I've recently started dating someone new, and you know what we do that really gets me in the mood? Roleplay.
I love it when we're both all dressed up and getting really into the roles. She's pretty dainty, so she usually cosplays one of the lolis she knows I'm so fond of. And I, of course, am the dark and dashing man of her sweetest nightmares, be he a wizard from beyond, or a thief snuck in through a window left open in a moment of forgetfulness...or willing submission? We play our parts, we say our lines, and my anticipation of the action to come rises. The scene moves to the bedroom and the tension builds until finally she lays herself out on the bed. That part's pretty confusing because the script says we're supposed to have an epic battle, and I usually lose the feel of the scene and that point and go eat some cheetos. Seriously, what does she think she's doing? I spent like five hours working up that LARP.
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2011-05-09, 19:58 | Link #8738 | |
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