2007-07-11, 12:18 | Link #221 | ||
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Jeez WK, what's with the hostility?
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This is just my opinion. I just think today's political correctness is misguided, that's all. Nothing wrong with a different opinion, right? It's not like I'm trying to get everyone here on AS to obey me or something
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2007-07-11, 12:22 | Link #222 | ||
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See: http://www.nber.org/digest/jul02/w8786.html. Remarriage helps: "Families respond to the absence of a second parent in a variety of ways that help mitigate some of the costs, the authors note. In the case of children born to single parents who subsequently marry and remain married for at least six years, post-tax family income increases 50 percent and pre-tax income rises 57 percent."
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2007-07-11, 12:27 | Link #223 | ||
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The problem I see with your logic is mainly because you are giving stereotype on genders. While in reality it is true and most mothers are housewives, i don't see why they "should" want to be in the kitchen. This line makes me think that you are not forcing, but you are suggesting that women who are not in the kitchen are simply not in their field, but they still have the freedom to do so. and that is a mere and old stereotype which isn't positive for equality anyway. Quote:
that how "I" understood your statement.
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2007-07-11, 12:31 | Link #224 | |
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If you're gonna get married, it should be forever. "Till death do you part" and all. Oh, and this don't come from a religious Point of view. I'm Atheist.
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2007-07-11, 12:33 | Link #225 |
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Umm.. anyone who believes a topic is too aggravating for them to refrain themselves from adding vulgarity, then it is time for you to stop posting in any particular thread. If you are going to argue, please do it without those colorful words. The chances are that your post will have much more impact and will be taken seriously.
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2007-07-11, 12:50 | Link #228 |
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You can't expect a marriage to last forever. Of course it would be nice if it was like that. But I'm sure everyone wishes to keep their feelings and everyone who gets married wishes that it would last forever. (except celebrity who are doing it out of fun or persons who are forced to marry a certain guy/girl) But seriously if a couple recognizes after years that it doesn't work anymore, even if they wanted it to be for eternity, it's better for both of them to break up and start a new life. It often happens that you lose your feelings for a person with time or that you notice that he/she isn't the right one. But how to find out those things if you never try. And with time I'm not talking about a few years or smth. I'm talking about people who notice those things after 10-20+ Years of marriage. It could happen to anyone, even unwanted. And those also have the right to marry.
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And it's not anyone's place to apply roles to individuals, so I have no comment on your family. They're free to make their own decisions. As I said before, my fiancee and I have reversed gender roles... I'd be a hypocrite if I thought everyone should be bound to their gender roles. It's okay, this is just a harmless debate. As long as there's no hard feelings, right? Quote:
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You seem to think every decision made in today's world isn't hurting anyone. That's false. Take single mothers for example. They seem to think that they can raise a child all by themselves because they can. They should get a man(or at least some kind of partner), or not get seperated from the kid's father, and not put their selfish desires over the welfare of their child/children. Quote:
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I think society should turn back around in some aspects. But I don't think it should be forced. And I definitely don't think one person should tell another person how to live. Maybe the opinion I have always came from assholes that would force the issue because they're insecure or something(like I give a crap about them), but I'm not like that. I believe in freedom just as much as you... I just believe that people should choose these lifestyles for themselves.
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(note that I have no problem with homosexual couples)
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2007-07-11, 14:00 | Link #236 | |
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Seriously though, it takes two to raise a good family. That's just what I believe. I don't see it as insulting at all.
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2007-07-11, 14:09 | Link #237 | ||
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Give me a break.
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2007-07-11, 14:12 | Link #238 | |
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I'm not trying to argue or prove anything. Just trying to give my opinion of everything. And I'm not failing to do that Pretty much.
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2007-07-11, 14:21 | Link #239 | ||
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This is turning into a chit-chat and nothing is being added... All you did for the last few posts is to focus on a few words of my statements and you didn't address the full content. Guess I'm out of here again.
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2007-07-11, 14:29 | Link #240 | |
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And I'm not trying to argue at all. I was attempting to be more understandable. I don't understand why you're trying to make me look like a failure at all... What am I supposed to address?
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