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Asexual? No such thing. What you people are looking for is probably "autosexual," if your right hand is the only person you love and will ever love.
Asexual as a sexual preference? Still no such thing. You're not asexual, you're just a cold fish. Masturbation is still a sexual act for all intents and purposes. If you were truly asexual, you'd feel no desire for anything sex-related at all. The concept would be totally foreign to you. And I just want to say that sex doesn't define mankind. Mankind's goal is to survive and reproduce, and sex is just one tool/ability in pursuit of that goal. That is all.
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Mankind's goal is not to reproduce. That's the goal of reasonless animals and plants. Mankind has the ability to think and reason. Their goal can be anything they want. Even self destruction if they so choose. |
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Humans have developed the ability to think and shape their environment. We can choose whatever careers or specializations, we can be artists or engineers. But all to what end? To make ends meet, wouldn't you say? To make a decent living.....to survive. All our intellect and ability to reason and manipulate the environment came about to help us survive, dominate and shape the world into an environment most fitting for our survival and continued existence. All for survival and evolution. To reproduce and pass your genes onto the next generation. You say you refute this because people commit suicide? Not to sound crass honestly, but people who commit suicide either have some mental disorder, or have failed in life. The fact that they've either of these two, and the fact that they choose to commit suicide rather than perservere and somehow find some way to survive and find a way out of their mess, proves that they are of "inferior" quality than someone who can find the courage to attempt to survive. When that failed person commits suicide, he removes his inferior genes from the human genome and mankind as a whole benefits from his absence. Or when a certain occupation fades away and is rendered obsolete and said people lose their jobs, they can either attempt to adapt and find a way to change themselves to fit into a changing world, or they can fail to do so and not succeed. Chance of marriage or seriously surviving become low. That's how it is in our first and second world countries. The people in third world countries are more closer to "instinctive humans" than us first world people in that they simply just breed like rabbits in hopes they have more hands to help around the home or that at least one won't die off at an early age and be able to go on to have his or her own family and whatnot. The struggle to merely survive is more pronounced in those regions. What I'm saying is: the "components" of evolution in a given species, their physical traits and their behaviors; humans have these as well except that the list of traits has grown to include personality, likes, dislikes, what we do, what we'd like to do, our thinking and reasoning skills, etc. All of these determine who will be successful and who will not. People who can make the right choices will prosper and easily afford to have a family and as a result let their genes pass on. People who make the wrong decisions, fail and don't. And those who succeed but don't want children, then there's obviously something wrong with them from an evolutionary standpoint, so their genes don't get passed on anyway; better to let someone who has great inclination to have children pass his/her genes on than someone who, for some weird reason, doesn't want to find a partner and have kids. Again all this is from an evolutionary standpoint. Why has Western democracy thrived and Communist regimes fallen? Obviously because the democracies create environments more suited and comfortable for us. Communism doesn't, obviously, so are more prone to decline and failure. People who espouse communism or fascism, for example, Hitler and Stalin, are conveniently removed from the human genome by those who uphold ideals that afford them better environments and living conditions: the Allies and the Western democracies. Enough examples. That's basically the reason why there's no such thing as an "asexual" human being, and why your points are wrong, and why your "refute" was not a refute at all.
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Shinova: I was stating that you points on the nonexistence of asexuality was refuted, not the idea that man's goal is survival. Though I do disagree with that on an individal level. And it's quite interesting that most of the "reasons" asexuality doesn't exist can also apply to homosexuality, which we are all know does indeed exist. I don't understand why someone can't believe there can exist a person who has no sexual desire for another person. |
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The term you're looking for is a "platonic relationship" True asexuality is non-existent to any human, so the term you're looking for is platonic relationships. EDIT: Oh yeah, and you did dedicate a paragraph to saying mankind's goal is not to reproduce, and I responded accordingly.
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B> Don't throw around terms that are wrong. Seriously, it would have taken you no more than 5 minutes to check your info on any decent psychology database. |
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2004-06-11, 12:59 | Link #34 |
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Don't you become more asexual as you get older and older?
At least that what I tought when you start thinking to spend the rest of your life with your partner and grow old. Maybe you just want the comfort of being with someone which doesn't necessarily have to be a sexual attraction anymore. That you don't want to die alone. |
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What about people like me who just don't want to be pestered with sex stuff online. If I know someone in person that is one thing. If I know or deal with someone online and online alone I don't see any reason to involve sex in it at all. Why bother since you will never know them irl. I know people who are the opposite, even online they make a big deal as in 'i am a girl' (or 'i am a 12-year-old girl') and often expect people to acknowledge it every day and treat them specially because of it. I'd bet a lot of these people aren't even girls irl, they are just pretending for the special treatment they get in a community of mostly guys. What's the point in parading around who/what you are online, intentionally meeting people from online is too dangerous and something I'd rather not do. That's how I was taught to use internet from the very beginning, never reveal any personal info, never give away anything that could be used to locate you, never talk about / criticize real life friends (or anyone know irl) on internet, especially not by name, etc. I know you cannot escape 'sex' on internet ie. even on animesuki look at that add 'Handylogo und Kingelto:ne...' that comes up occasionally, don't tell me that add ain't sexual yet for the most part you can ignore it and not involve yourself in it. |
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No sex? Never. Impossible. Unless your mazochist or having sex with your hand. I believe it is possible to have no love relationship in life but sex as nothing to do with behaviour, unless you're phisicaly or mentaly handicaped of tromatised by a serious event. But to all NORMAL people, don't try to convince yourself
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So nope, you are not asexual, and no modern human being is. Everyone has felt some sexual desire at some point in their lives. And if they never have, they either have some physical disorder or mental disorder. Quote:
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An extreme example are victims of rape or child molestation. These kind of thing can scar a person for life. I don't know if you are insensitive person or something. But believe it or not, there are people who find sex repulsive. |
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Hello people. Interesting topic here, I just thought I should add my thoughts. I'm asexual, but I do understand people not believing it at first since it has not recieved much publicity, and it's rare.
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