2010-01-11, 23:34 | Link #1003 | |
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A lesbian, trans girl who isn't staunchly left-wing, who is in fact the complete opposite... kinda puts me out from the group, even the LGBT folks, especially here in Berkeley! Due to my unemployed status and the general nature of the economy, I'm also forced to live off of general assistance (basically, welfare) and with my socio-political beliefs, this really doesn't sit well with me. I feel terrible all the time; I feel guilty, I feel like a leech. It's a miserable feeling. Even though I know a lot of the economic problems are related to the bailouts, the bad banks and all that, it still doesn't sit well with me. Even though I know it's not my fault, I still can't help but feel bad that I'm not able to support myself.
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2010-01-12, 00:35 | Link #1004 |
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I applaud you for your efforts and doing your best given the situation you're in. I don't know how I would deal if I were in your shoes. All I can do, is pray that things get better for you, and that you get to where you want to be socially, academically, professionally, etc.
I can't relate in almost anyway with you. So it makes it difficult to imagine everything you're going through. Your situation is not good though and I wish there was something I could do to improve it. Nothing I say can comfort you though, and I'm conflicted between my far right beliefs, and wishing no harm and only success for others, as well as their finding happiness, no matter how different or the same they are to me. -messes up his hair frustratingly- I don't really know what to say. I'm sorry synaes.
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2010-01-15, 18:29 | Link #1005 |
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since i don't give a damm about people around me, i would let them marry, as long they don't bother me i'm okay with it.
and the hell with other problems, you only have problems if you give a damm about anything. just let go of everything and live by the day and just have fun. cause no matter how deep in shit you are, it isn't bad as long as you don't give damm about it and have fun.
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2010-01-16, 14:36 | Link #1006 |
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they said on the daily show that the main problem is that their Cramming their problem down the goverment's throats. you can change the rules and laws but you cant change people's opinions and hatred of people. even if they law was made there will be problems such as redicule and hate, even hate crimes. like "lets go brick that gay couples house"
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2010-01-16, 16:21 | Link #1007 |
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That's why a lot of gay-rights activist groups were opposed to the federal lawsuit against Proposition 8.
They're afraid of backlash if it succeeds and Prop 8 is overturned. The LGBT groups are scared to death that there will be a wave of violence against homosexuals and transgendered people if the federal court case succeeds.
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2010-01-16, 21:07 | Link #1009 |
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The whole thing's a mess anyway. The government has no business being involved, in any way, shape or form in a religious binding ritual (marriage).
Change the legal procedure's name to "civil union" regardless of the orientation. The fundies won't have a leg to stand on at that point; their entire argument against same-sex marriage hinges upon the word "marriage." Throw the word out for everyone and relegate "marriage" back to a religious binding ritual and everyone's happy. Well, except the fundies, who don't want gay people to have any rights--who mostly don't want us to even exist. They won't be happy, but they won't have a position to argue from any longer.
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2010-01-16, 21:30 | Link #1010 |
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Aye... the "state" should never have been involved in "marriage" to begin with - (separation of church and state). It should have always been labeled "civil union" and let each religion call it whatever floats their boat.
However... here's a fine example of how odd the discussion can be: in the UK (where they have civil unions that equal the same rights as marriage), a heterosexual couple is fighting to be in a "civil union" rather than a "marriage" because UK law only permits civil unions for same-sex couples. Head spinning, hurts.... http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandsty...il-partnership
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2010-02-26, 08:51 | Link #1014 | |
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While in the West, homosexuals are fighting to have similar legal rights as hetrosexuals, in other parts of the world, they are legally fighting for their very lives..
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Just to add a little international flavour (since we are on the internet) for similar issues and to open your minds outside of the world that you know once in a while.
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2010-02-26, 09:03 | Link #1015 | |
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Came across this a few days back . An interesting step forward in terms of theater . Some times it good to focus on the positive than negative . A breath of sunshine and fresh air anyone .
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2010-03-04, 16:26 | Link #1016 |
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http://www.talkingpointsmemo.com/arc...g_pantheon.php
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2010-03-05, 23:52 | Link #1017 |
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Something I don't understand about Civil unions. If it's just marriage by another name, why not just call it marriage and extend the 1,138 something odd rights marriage includes to gay people? I mean, why call it something else if we already have something like it on the books? It just seems like another means by which to keep gay people at arm's length and at second rate status.
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2010-03-06, 04:36 | Link #1018 | ||
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Also initially, homosexuals were complaining about being in long lasting relationships but not being granted citizen/civil rights of joint mortages, joint bank accounts, being next of kin legally, (basically, all the legal trimmings a married couple would get), which I beleive was the main driving force for the UK to pass the bill 5 years ago. Marriages typically conducted in church with religious ties don't condone it, so alike a divorcee remarrying, they'd hit the registry office and have a private reception and party but be legally recognised as a couple. Quote:
But you can have a breeze through at the rest of the article, esp between US and Europe to give ya a better idea :P
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